In pain

[kmama2011]

I posted yesterday about back pain and pressure. Its worse today still no bleeding but now the pain is in both my front and back. It is a crampy feeling. My lower abdomen is sensitive to pressure too. I had an appointment today and they did nothing. They didnt check me out at all. I was told since im only 9w 5d that they couldn't do anything if I miscarry anyways. I realize this but they seriously couldnt offer me any help at all? Theu didnt even try to listen to the babys heart beat. Litterally just walked in asked if was having any problem and said well sorry call if you start bleeding though we still cant help you then either. Like seriously how can they be so cold

[rebecca_sasser]

Just go to the hospital they will listen to ur babys heartbeat......u may be dehydrated or have an infection which is very common.....

[kmama2011]

Thank you so much

[sharichajewski]

Just a little bit of hope as i know u are very worried. Ive had alot of cramping tjrough my.pregnancy and in my first trimester and second i had bad back pain with cramping and with spottng. They never did figure out why i spotted and for the cramping i have an irritable uterus so it contracts thru my whole pregnancy and they figurd that was also the backache. Well im now 36 weeks pregnant and had similar issues in my firt pregnancy and carried to 37 weeks. So stay positive and im sending prayers your way that baby is healthy and going to be just fine:)

[kmama2011]

Yeah she told me to call if I start bleeding or have any other problems and shell have me seen by their triage nurse. She told me shes pretty sure everything is fine but she definitely wants to see me to be sure

[DominiqueN573]

That's great!! I'm glad things worked out.. but if you're still having cramps maybe she can see you today or tom?

[KristiAnn2011]

Monday is pretty far off expecially if u are about to miscarry.. I'd still go to hospital. Tell them u have spotting and cramping. They don't wanna see the spotting. Atleast not mine. They gave me that iv and an ultrasound. The iv made my cramps stop

[kmama2011]

Shes having them switch my care over to her.

[kmama2011]

I called and got the number to one of the nurse midwifes I saw as well when I was pregnant with my son. She is seeing me monday at the new place shes working at. Shes already being.helpful. Im so glad I got her number

[DominiqueN573]

Yeah df call. Its you're baby they are crazy!! Tell them you want answers. Good luck Hun. Praying for you and baby

[kmama2011]

I could call and tell them its gotten worse since it.has but she made it seem like she didnt even really want me to call if I was bleeding. I will go ahead and give it a go though

[DominiqueN573]

Why don't you call you're ob and demand an ultrasound.. tell them you're extremely worried and upset with the care they gave you today and you want to see if you're baby is okay

[DominiqueN573]

Can you tell them you had some spotting so you can see the baby?

[kmama2011]

This is my second I never experienced this with my first. I had cramping but it was more like period cramps this is different. If I go to the hospital they wont do anything. The only way they.would do an ultra sound is if I was bleeding. Im just beside myself with this I dont understand how they can offer such pitiful ” help” for women in the early stages of pregnancy. I dont expect them to be able to save.the baby but they could at least try to make.you feel better

[DominiqueN573]

Some drs are so cold! My advice is to go to the hospital and get an ultrasound.. 9 weeks may be too early to hear the heartbeat with a doppler that's probably why they didn't try, but they should have sent you for an ultrasound to make sure the baby is growing okay.  Even if the hospital can't give you any medicine maybe they can explain why you're having such bad back pain and if you see you're little one I'm sure you will feel a lot better.  Sometimes cramps are normal.. I'm sure baby is fine. Have faith And go to the er they will def do an ultrasound :)

[KristiAnn2011]

Go to the er!! They will do an ultrasound and they gave me something in an iv when I thought I was having a miscarriage.

[kmama2011]

Thank you. I just feel like they couldve tried to give me some kind of answers. Or done a pelvic exam or something. Idk ive never gone through this before. Im just really disappointed in my dr. she was so helpful with my first and now I feel like she doesnt care about me or my baby

[4Nheaven1here]

I'm sorry this is happening to you. That's the jaded health care providers for you. They can't do anything to help either way. They say it isnt viable. They probably think you are going to miscarriage and don't want you to hear a heart beat for that simple fact. I hope you don't loose your baby. I will keep you in my prayers