Overbearing mother in law!!

[BriannaLeigh]

Okay I need advice. My mother in law is just wayyyy too much. She shows up here every single day with dinner!!! I am grown! Once and awhile that's so nice but every single day is ridiculous, I sit here all day I would like to make dinner for me and the hubby once and awhile you know? She just makes me feel like a child, and were having a child! It doesn't stop with that she texts or calls me or sometimes even just shows up ridiculously early in the morning and it wakes me up, and is aggravating because I'm so fat along in my pregnancy I can't sleep much because I'm uncomfortable. The other day I was in the bath tub and she freaked out because I didn't answer the door she was pounding and trying to get in and then blew up my phone cause she though something was wrong... I was naked in the bath!!!! Ugh it's just frustrating and I can't say anything because she does do a lot for us and has bought our crib and a ton of stuff for our baby on the way... Any advice?? Am I being mean for getting annoyed?

[lovedmommy]

U can also say you want to make him a romantic dinner and if she has any recipes for you to use that way she knows you want to make it.....

[jlin91]

Just tell her that you would appreciate the meals brought after baby is here...but for Now you want to try making meals on your own so you can feel useful...my boyfriends mom is that way too.. I just tell her im tired...or tell her im out with a friend

[Schmalzy]

Haha sounds like my mom!  She's way to much sometimes.  She lives 2 hrs away right now but she was joking Cuz they bought the lot right beside them that they would put a house there for us.. I was like Haha omg no. You'll be over there every minute of the day.  So they are gonna build a garage there instead. Lol.  

[steffemm]

my mother in law is the same way with me..im giving her her first grandchild... just talk to her nicelyy...ease it to her. tell her earlier in the day, that uve made plans for making a nice dinner for TWO...

[rebeccaann11]

it would be overbearing having her there every day. It is nice though that she cares that much. Maybe she's worried You'll to in labor when your husband isn't there?

[mumtobe23]

If I was you I would ask your husband to talk to her. Maybe he can tell her that you need some rest and alone time before bubs arrives

[Mommy_Daddy_2]

Ugh I couldn't handle that. thankfully we live hours from our families. have you tried talking to her? Thst its really nice she is helping so much but that you'd really like to have some time of you and hubby before baby comes?