misscarried prenant again need advise!!

[jade447]

im realy scared that im going to lose it again is there any advise on preventing a miscarriage like pills to take or ne thing cause having this baby would mean the world 2 me so if any advise please help! many thanks.

[jade447]

the only thing im feeling is pains in my stomach which cant be good dont feel sick im tired alot tho and my breats aint sore! so i dunno wot to xpect cos my first pregnacy i had pains and lost it at 8weeks and now im only 6weeks ive had a few blood tests dun but im worried bout the pains r they normal?

[njeosys]

First off, stress cannot cause you to miscarry. Miscarriage happens for a variety of reasons, the most common being that there is a defective sperm or egg and the embryo has severly mutated genes. Also, low progesterone is a big culprit and you can take pills/shots/suppositories to keep your progesterone up to help support the pregnancy.

I have to tell you I got pregnant two months after my m/c and I now have a chunky, happy, healthy 8 month old daughter (I also have a 2 yr old daughter). I worried throughout that pregnancy and didn't fully enjoy it. I didn't have low progesterone or any issues at all. It was a beautiful, eventless pregnancy.

To prevent a m/c if you have low progesterone, you need to have your doc check your levels. If they are good, then you're good to go!!! If not, they'll give you something to help you.

By the way, are you having normal pregnancy symptoms?

[sleepless_mom]

Have your progesterone levels checked. Many women with infertility, implantation failures and/or miscarriages produce low levels of progesterone.

What does progesterone do?

Helps to regulate the menstrual cycle.
Prepares the lining of the uterus for implantation.
Keeps the lining of the uterus thick which is necessary for a successful pregnancy.
Produces a rise in temperature after ovulation, which remains until menstruation occurs.
Creates a nutrient rich environment for the baby by increasing glycogen and arterial blood to the lining of the uterus.
Keeps the uterus from having contractions.
Causes the cervix to thicken and create a mucous plug which prevents bacteria from entering the uterus.

[jade447]

its just so hard to not worry im like trying not 2 worry cos dont wanna get stressed and it happen again but then thinking tht jus makes me more worried lol so its a no win seeing doctor on 14th and i think i will go 4 reg scans jus 2 take a load of! the main thing im worried about is tht i m/c in october and since i didnt ave a period then i find out im pregnant and the dr says tht i mite lose it cos i didnt ave a period so ivt all jus builds up! thank u all so much for ur advise means alot my partner hopes for a boy lol!

[hopes777]

I'm also very nervous right now too....this is my second pregnancy(two AF cycles after my miscarriage).  I'm 4 weeks pregnant but so scared----really wanted to have a baby.  I check to make sure Im not spotting or bleeding almost every two hours and just keeping praying that God will help me and dh to cocieve a beautiful child and uncomplicated 9 months.

[tarajanes]

Thats understandable,pregnancy does that,bet its a girl..

[shandi83]

i agree with the others and if you want ask your doc for frequent ultrasounds to ease your mine as well.

[Leanna26]

hehe my brain is all mixed up this morning. Not enough sleep.

Jade, just take it easy, take care of yourself to the best of your ability, take your pre-natels and try to get in to see the doc for an early appointment.  Most people say wait until you are around 10-12 weeks for your first dr. appointment, but to put your mind at ease, I would try to make an earlier appointment.

[tarajanes]

she is already pregnant. LOL.
hey and congrats !!!!!

[Leanna26]

There is no real way to prevent a mc, usually it happens for a reason. I know it sucks and is very painful. I have gone through 3, each for different reasons, and each just bad luck.
I was very scared for it to happen again every pregnancy, but the thing you need to realize is that if you want that baby, you have to take the risk. I am finally going through a healthy pregnancy.

The best thing you can do while trying to get pregnant is take your pre-natels even though you are not pregnant yet. Getting a good build up of Folic acid.
Try to generally take care of yourself and body, eat a balanced meal, no smoking or drinking.

Good luck

[tarajanes]

Hi there congratulations on your pregnancy,sadly there isnt anything you can do to prevent a mc,make sure you drink plenty of fluids,take your prenatals,its only natural to be worried,but honestly im sure you will be fine.