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first time.

This might be a silly question to ask and yes im very new at this. But has anyone here had an unplanned pregnancy? Mine is and i want to still have this beautiful child but my partner does not. Im just a little scared if im a single mother if its really hard?
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My pregnancy was planned we tired for months and finally it happened. And he ended up leaving me for another women, no explanation or anything so now I have a six year old and my new bundle due just around the corner. And I'm happy and excited can't wait to see what the world has to offer me and my babies. Just stay positive and know you are not alone.
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My first pregnancy was unplanned. My boyfriend told me to abort it. I don't believe that I'd ever an option. We broke up and I did an open adoption. Open adoptions are so beautiful. I am so close to the people that adopted my baby boy and we all love him so much. Something you could look into.
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Mines unplanned, the fathers left me! But I cannot wait to be a mom, mums rule! We can do it
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Thank you i think my biggest fear is wondering if my partner will stay or not. Hes a good guy but now im unsure if he will man up and help me go through this amazing time with me.
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Mine wasn't planned and honestly I love my son to death, he's now 2 months and it was the most amazing unplanned event to happen in my life. I actually don't want any of my children to be planned, it's more fun and surprising that way(:
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No problem , :) keep your head up God will make a way
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Thank you again for all your help and fpr both of you congrats on your pregnancy.
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It's not easy but it's nothing a woman can't handle, trust yourself. Love yourself :)
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Thank you its just really hard and at the age he is i thought it would be a different story but i guess not i know im strong enough to raise this child alone. So thank you.
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There are tons of unplanned pregnancies and single moms. My pregnancy is unplanned and I'm going to end up a single mom. I know it won't be easy but it's possible and doable. Just stay positive and focused and make a plan.
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Mine was unpland , but as woman we gotta do what we got too , a baby don't man around some stay some leave
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