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RIP Rihanna Garza
I need alot of prayers from you guys.I was 28 weeks/7 months and went to the hospital 2-20-12 because I had no baby movement with in 24 hrs. Go in and turns out to my baby had past.Heart broken and confused. Was not expecting any of this.Doctors had no idea to why this happen.I still had to deliver my daughter. Had her @ 5:30am on 2-21-12.Weigh only 1.46.She was 13 in.long.Her cord was wrapped in a knott not only on her ankle but also on her neck causing her to suffocate.I wish I would have known.I wish I would had gone sooner.I feel guilty. She was so innocent and precious. My boyfriend isn't being so supportive. He acts like he went through the pain.He makes me horrible faces and says how it was my fault. I feel horrible. ALONE.I just wat my baby back.I just want to hold her.I wish she can be home with me.I get so frustrated when I look at people post on here talking about how fat they feel.Or how annoying it is being pregnant. How they can't wait til the baby is out.I wish I can.slap you guys in your face.You guys have no idea what its like loosing a child.Cherish your pregnancy. Be happy you have your child healthy.Thank God for blessing you with them.Their angels sent to us.Please listen.Not trying to offend any one.But I'm in so much pain and empty.Please alot of prayers. RIP RIHANNA GARZA. HOPE TO SEE YOU SOON DAUGHTER. I LOVE YOU.I MISS YOU.I WISH YOU WERE HERE BABY.LOVE MOMMY.ANGEL OF MINE.GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN.
If you need someone to talk to, send me a message. my first pregnancy, i lost my twin boys. That was almost 6 yrs ago. I felt like everytime i turned around someone else was pregnant with twins or pregnant and "werent ready" i was so angry all the time. Angry & jealous. Wanting to know why me. My husband (bf at the time) and i ended up splitting up for quit awhile and all i did was drink. I tried to drink all my pain away. 6 months after the twins, we "hooked up" and i got pregnant with my daughter. I didnt want anything to do with her until i found out she was a girl. Now that im pregnant with a boy, im scared as hell.. I want him yet i do not.
I lost my daughter in October and when women say they can't wait to get the baby out it bothers me too now, but I was the same way when I was pregnant with my daughter and son, I an so dirty that you went through that pain and no one will ever truly understand as every woman reacts differently to losing a baby. Your angel will forever be watching over you and one day will hold your hand the way she has been holding your heart.
I can understand... Your boyfriend need to understand that cord incidents are very rare 1 in 200.. And alot of time it is impossible to find out early.. I know doctor say that 5% of these are saved if problem is found early.. Which is almost to nothing coz it can happen with in an hr...my midwife told me with her first child she actually started to feel movements at 31wks.. I myself have missed 24hrs every week.. I m 29wks now n i do miss hours until i feel him move... So for me i always have to wait 12hrs min ans 24hrs max before going in for emergency.. Tell him that... What would a women like me do? U understand where i m coming from.. Blaming you is childish... Evn if you would hve found out early by the time thy would hve taken her out theres 99% chance she would have died... Its so immature of him... Its very sad thing as baby moves around alot it is possible to get it rapped around them... Being aother and a women u r in much pain than him.. N his support is very necessary at this stage....
Thanks.And yes.Don't hesitate at all if you don't feel your baby move within that hour go to the er and get checked out.I waited a whole day.Didn't think anything of it.I feel like if I would had gone sooner she wouldva still been here.
I am Sooo sorry for ur loss.. I can not imagine wat ur going thro but she is in heave now watching you... it was not ur fault at all. U nd ur family will be in my prayers... stay strong.
I am so sorry for your loss... I cant not understand the pain you are going through... i always get scared when he doesnt move as i lost one at 11wks... For his sake i put up with everything... I wish there was something i could do to help u ease up ur pain... But its going to stay and she will always stay in ur heart. I m so sorry again....
Thanks all of you so much.It all feels like a horrible dream and I can't wait to wake up and it be over.I'm only 19 yrs.And have a soon to be 3 yrs old son.He was aware of my pregnancy. Always kissed my belly and said sister.It breaks my heart that he's to small to understand but I know he feels the pain because he keeps asking if his sister is ok.He will always be a good big brother. RIP Rihanna. GARZA.I love you and miss you my dear
Not your fault hun, although there are both ups and downs to pregnancy this definitely puts things into perspective for those who don't appreciate the gift they have been given. I'm sorry for your loss and don't ever want you to let your boyfriend make you feel that way. Every one grieves their own way but y that is just mean. Best of luck to you and your family you are in my prayers
Aww sorry for your loss baby girl is now your angel looking out for you. Im glad you can tell your story to make pregnancy more positive for woman who cant manage it well. Being pregnant is hard but it is more of a blessing. You are a strong woman bless you!
Im speechless reading your story. This is my first pregnancy and i spend most days worrying about what your going through. But then i try to remember God always has a plan..for me for you and your angel. I dont know what your going through because its never happened to me and i know it easy to say why God. But He makes no mistakes. I pray peace and blessings in your household and peace in your spirit. And i pray He continues to bless you in more ways than one. Its never your fault..never your fault.
Sorry for your lost hun, its not your fault tho at all. Ima keep u n your baby girl in my prayers.
Im sorry yu are going thru this sweetie. Yer in my prayers. I know its hard but yu gotta know it wasn'tyer fault. God needed another angel and she will forever be watching over yu
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