If you are getting married coming up, why not just wait until after marriage to try for a family? Do you want to be pregnant and feeling nauseous/sick on your wedding day? That doesn't sound very fun, plus it would be nice to just spend time with your new husband. A friend of mine got pregnant with her fiance(was planned) and he walked out on her when she was 6 months along. There are no guarantees and no one thinks it will happen to them, but it's something to keep in mind. There is no need to rush into parent hood. Have some fun being 20 and live life before bringing a child into the world. Hope it all goes well.
we have not totally decided..either late summer or fall.. and thank you..just have to keep on tryin i guess lol
Depending on how your body reacts to coming off the shot, you may be able to conceive right away or it may take several months for the effects of the shot to wear off and for your body to get back to normal. When are you getting married?
Thank you for the fertile advise..my main concern is the shot that im coming off of...like i said in the post i got the shot in either jan or feb..and u go back in three months...so either april or june was my last shot...and i have bled the entire time i was on...and since i have been off?
There are lots of tips and tricks for being more fertile that are so easy. Watch your diet (eat lots of raw fruits and veggies, even some dark chocolate, pomegranates, walnuts, etc.), ditch caffeine, husband should wear boxers and let "his boys" breathe if he doesn't already. But most importantly you should learn about your body and about when in your cycle you're most fertile (about 2 weeks before your period).