No keep up your pelvic floor exercises! It means youl have less of a time pushing and hopefully prevent urine leakages, id feel happy with that compliment :)
Just learn to relax them. But strong muscle help when pushing
I went through the same thing when she went to check my cervix! Could barely get her fingers in so she started using just one, wasnt working so she got more lube. No joke. ... she gave up! A week later I told doc to lube up lol finally I was checked! I wasn't tense or anything she just couldn't break the barrier. My boyfriend was proud lol
haha lol that's good to know thanks ladies :))))