Sex AFTER baby, I'm scared!!! :(

[Crystal0093]

I know this isn't the right forum for this but I posted on another and didn't get a response so somebody plz answer!!! I will be four weeks postpartum on Friday and the closer I get to six weeks the more scared I get cuz I know my hubby is going to want to have sex then :( problem is I am so scared it is going to hurt!!! Plz anybody who already had a baby plz tell me how bad does it hurt having sex the first time after having a baby, I need to know. Also, I did have to get stitches. Eight to be exact..

[mfayb]

I waited eight weeks because I still didn't feel up for it. It did hurt me but it wasn't unbearable.  It basically got better each time. I have stitches as well.

[LLLmoma]

I also had some stitches

[LLLmoma]

It don't hurt but like for me I bleed a lil afterwords

[aaharmony]

I only had a couple stitches, but sex after birth didn't hurt me. Just ask him to go slow, or maybe you be on top so you can control the speed and depth. Just talk to your guy, let him know you really want to, but that you need to take it easy at first. You'll be fine.

[Crystal0093]

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