Update....
I called DH's Grandma... And told her about the unwanted company. I also told her I couldn't deal with it right now, i'm still sick, and actually getting another cold. Plus I'm too moody and in pain, and have constant appointments for the next 3 weeks.
She told me, DH's mom put this whole thing together. And she thought they were all staying at a hotel. She she made a reservation at a hotel for them all. They were still at the airport waiting LMAO!!
See, here is the thing. I can fit them all in my house, but don't want to. We have 11 bed rooms, 2 kitchens (upstairs and downstairs) 3 living rooms (2 upstairs 1 downstairs) 3 dinning rooms (2 upstairs 1 downstairs) two laundry rooms with washers and driers 4 bathrooms. We have huge family functions in this house, and it was DH's Grandpa's house (on his dads side) that he had built with his own hands. We bought it at a great price, and we sold it to One of the kids who grew up here, (Dh's uncle)
But anyways, dh's Grandma said that she didn't know why dh's mom had done this to us, and she was sorry. But I told her that if I had invited them, if would be no problem at all, but it's a bad time and we already have plans, and I don't like people in my house who I don't know all that well. Oh well. atleast she understands!
Oh right before i left for my appointment, i took the address numbers off my house lol.... and my mail box doesn't even say the address... lol
still no sign. as far as im concerned they should stay at dhs moms lol... no they arent even offering to pay for anything, its crazy...
Yeah i guess im feeling a little better..im super irritable the past few days.I dont really wanna talk to alot of people but they keep calling me an calling me. And i been super tired lately too. LOL! Well i would of had my baby by the time you get here and you would be coming right to the island i am on. Thanks for letting me know you would come...even not knowing me makes me feel better.
I love my family and I love them coming by but 20 at the same time, i'd tell them directions to the nearest motel or guesthouse. That is ridiculous, I don't een think that its legal to have so many people in a house. I'd call the fire department to tell me what's the maximum capacity in the house and kick them out! If it was for a week or a weekend it's not so bad but until Thanksgiving?!?! What the hell were they thinking?
Are they paying you for food, water, electric bill??? Seriously, I'm appalled!!!
If you have a digital camera you can take short videos and post them on youtube. That's what I do whenever I catch my son doing something hysterical. You can password protect your videos also so that not everyone can view them.
Good luck with the inlawas! We had a surprise visit back in August that lasted for 12 days so I feel your pain.