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Rant!>_<

Im 20 weeks and 3 days and im 18. My aunt who is like my role model has to be the center of attention and shes the favorite it the family. Shes sadly to say... a ****.. it took me and my boyfriend a year to concive our son and when she found out i was pregnant she started trying. She goes from guy to guy and shes getting married to a guy who shes been with for barely 2 months. This is my first child and i know that she only got pregnant to take the attentiin away from me.  I know i might seem jealous but it really ticks my nerves that she has to be the center of atrention and i love her dont get me wrong but shes making a huge mistake marrying a guy thats alreadt cheated on her twice in the 2 months theyve been together. Shes 6 weeks.. please tell me its just my hormones..:( sorry for any typos
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9121436 tn?1407979502
My brother and sister in law waited for me to get pregnant to have another one. I'm kind excited to have them close together. It may be fun!
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It also upsets me because i explained to my mom how i felt and then she just keeps talking about her and her baby.. im like this is your first grandchild and youre making it all about her.. yea shes your sister but im your daughter.. it should be about me... definetely when it comes to my mom caring more bout her.  it just upsets me and i started crying.
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Same feeling with my sister she wanted to be the first to have a baby ... And mine wasn't planned but I still love my baby and my aunt is pregnant and she shows more attention to her and her baby than she does to her own niece. Like she called me the day before my bday which is my aunts to make sur I told her happy bday and she was taking my aunt out to eat then the next day was mine no call no txt nothing!:(
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I had someone do that to me, but it was not family. It's not hormones it is people wanting attention. I had an aunt screw me over recently and bad.
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9142665 tn?1406075655
Definitely not just hormones.  Based on what you said its a very irresponsible choice
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I agree completely. She seems like (and I hate to say this about anyone's family but) an attention *****.... I'm sorry about all that. Just ignore it the best you can. My sister started acting out against me recently especially now that you can definitely tell I'm prego. She'll start fights and screaming matches just to get a little attention even if it's negative. I try my best to just ignore it. It's hard but the less you show her you're bothered by it she'll eventually back off. As for the rest of the family that will be their problem and not yours
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