Oh no, sounds like you had it worse. My hub and i can be intimate but aftermath is it gets more swollen from all that. Its really uncomfortable having swollen vulva feeling like so much pressure :/ thanks though i will try that next time it gets to be too much
I went through the same thing. It was so swollen down there my husband and I couldn't be intimate for an entire 2 months. TMI but he couldn't get a finger in there THATS how bad it was, I was on the verge of tears. Nothing I did really helped except lube. Its just all the extra blood your body is producing now for the baby pumping down there. It went away like 2 months ago. I'm 39+5 weeks and now for the past 3 weeks or so I've been swelling up really bad from my legs, feet, and hand as well. My blood pressure was a little high last week so hopefully its not pre-eclampsia but just normal preggo side effects. For now it's just keeping those legs up in the air and drinking more water.