period month late ! 4 negative tests ?

[Becky632]

ahh i am going crazy here .. okay i had sex on the 21st of last month and my period was due on the 26th .. first and only time ive ever had sex and it was protected ( condom) and my periods have always been regular ! ive just taken ANOTHER home pregnancy test and its negative ? surely it would show up by now right? Im only 15 so i cant exactly tell my mum and ask to get a blood test ? i need some help.. ive had no pregnancy symptoms whatsoever

please reply soonn !

xxx

[Becky632]

Thnakyou so much for helping me ! my period came yesterday morning :D it must just has been the stress ... but yeah thankyou sooo much for just being there . it really helped ! xxx

[Stephanie_plum]

I've been reading your posts Becky, and haven't added anything, cos StressHead has definitely got you covered on all the information you need (I think she's great!)
I too think the likely hood of you being pregnant is very low.
Plenty of girls have irregular periods, especially around exam time.
I just wanted to reinforce, that you should not wast any more money on pee tests, and get a blood test done, to calm you down.
And then I suggest you just try and concentrate on your exams rather than worrying your self sick.

[StressHead]

I'm 12 days late and I tested at lunch with a FRER (First Respose Early Result) and it was BFN :( I did an hours exercise yesterday because I have been putitng on weight and I thought it might force my AF to show but it did not. I have some symptoms similar to pregnancy but am not hopeful. Just want to get back to trying again.

I think you would have to be very unlucky. I'm not a betting women but I would bet alot of money that you're not. Can you get an appointment with your Doc? I'm going to try get in on Friday and as for a blood test.

[Becky632]

yeahh will do .. how lates yours now ? cus mines a month and a bit :S still no pregnancy symptoms and yett another negative test yesterday ..it was one of the expensive ones so if i was pregnant it probly would have shown up wouldnt it?? sorry i know ive already asked but i keep seeing people saying that lots of people dont show up untill like 3 months in .. is that likely dya reckon? xx

[StressHead]

I'm a teacher chick, I dont think it is childish that you are stressed about your exams. It is perfectly normal and alot of my year 11's are feeling the strain now time is running out. I still don't have my period :( Let me know when yours comes xx

[Becky632]

Yeah im pretty sure mines coming aswell ! pretty bad stomach aches.. and seriously im doing my exams atm and i dont think ive ever been so stressed lol i bet that sounds really childish but ive been worried about all this aswell.. all just kindof building up!
Thanks anyway xxx

[StressHead]

Sometimes you can just miss a period but still ovulate, so be careful. I had school inspectors in last week so I'm thinking the stress of that might have delayed me. I'm sure AF is coming though because I have bad cramps and I feel very angry and teary at the same time. I could KILL someone...never got these kind of symptoms on the pill LOL

[Becky632]

Thanks so much for replying .. it actually helps just to hear it from someone else even when you know all that stuff !  i just didnt know whether stress could cause it to be delayed by a fullon month ? but i guess thats what it is .. I mean it would have showed up positive by now wouldnt it ? 28 days late .. sorry to ask again xx

[StressHead]

It's unlikely that you are pregnant chick. Maybe you were a little anxious about your period coming because you have had sex this time and that can cause a delay.
The first time I had sex, I got thrush, I was 15. I told my Mum though cos I was worried and although she wasn't happy with me, she took me to Docs and she said that it might have been caused my the disruption (if you get what I mean)
I'm not suggesting you tell you Mum btw you know your relationship with her better than me x
Maybe the 'disruption' affected you cycle - not sure if that's possible but you never know.

Anyway, you did the right thing using protection. I would recommend you go to a clinic and get some birth control as well to be on the safe side. That's what I did and I never had a pregnancy scare. AND as an extra extra measure you could avoid sex around the middle of your cycle when you ovulate. You need to make sure that your boyfriend doesn't transfer any sperm on his fingers either before of afterwards...I'm sure you know all this.....

To put things into perspective, I am actively trying to concieve and I had unprotected sex every day around the egg day and I am two weeks late and it is unlikely that I am pregnant either!!