Good Morning! I am very eager to get to see this doctor today. I want to thank you ALL for your feedback. I have since January actually found a new doctor that I hope I can start new with and move forward with a positive attitude.
On December the 13th I buried my daughter next to my father who I lost at 11 years ago this June. I know she is well taken care of!
I know how much there was to read and I really appreciate that you all took the time to understand me. I have lately felt very alone, like nobody gets me and understands my motive with all of this.
All my love and prayers are with you all!
J
I am so sorry for your loss! I have to agree with the ladies above! Good Luck and I hope you find a little peace! God Bless
I sincerely hope that you feel better and kind find peace within yourself. I agree that you definitely need to find a new doctor. They should have been able to tell that your fluid was low or, unless it was just a freak thing that happened from one minute to the next, but a lot of times when you lose fluid like that there is nothing they can do for you. It is an awful thing because at that point you are very attached to that baby... I recommend that you have a memorial service for your little girl. It might help you put your mind and your heart at ease. I am so sorry for your loss. Please keep us informed of how you are doing!
I over heard a doctor talking to a patient the other day who had low fluid. The patient asked why her fluid was under 5 one day and the next it was 10. The doctor said it was because the baby urinated just before the us on the second day and hadnt urinated yet on the first day. Now, I understand that is probably not your case because she was about 36 or so weeks. It is very apparenty by your us picture that there is no fluid in there. My first piece of advice is to find a new doctor. I would sit down with the new doc and discuss all of this and hope that makes you feel better.
I do not know what measures you are already taking to help your fragile state. I am saying this with the best of intentions. It WILL make you feel better to talk to a doctor about this and possibly get some meds. If you are already on them, I would go back and see if they should be changed. It sounds like you could really benefit from the proper course of treatment. Not due to loosing a baby, but for other reasons, I had very bad anxiety and obsessions came with it. I put up with this for almost two years. Finally i went to the doc adn within 2 weeks I felt much better. I am not saying you shouldnt be sad, because you should be, but I think you could feel better than you do. Please do not take offense to this or rule it out.
I hope you feel better soon!
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I hope that one day you can find peace with this all. I noticed in your sonogram, that there was NO fluid around the baby. I have three children, and everytime I would pay close attention to my sonograms, and the things the dr.s would say....I knew what the amniotic fluid was. They should have realized, especially in that sonogram that there was no fluid.
The only thing I can say at this point is, change DOCTORS!!!. The next time you become pregnant, go see another doctor.
I wish you and your husband all the best!!!
First off, Im incredibly sorry that this happened to you and I sincerely hope you get some answers tomorrow that give you some peace.
I would also suggest you ask what measures (including some of the above points you will discuss) will be taken in future pregnancies based on this history. I also recommend you print out this list of concerns/questions so you dont forget anything.
Best of luck to you.