so my father recently passed away and i am currently 30 weeks pregnant with a baby girl... who we wanted to name Hadley Catherine but since my dad passed i have been thinking i want her to have my dads first name as a middle name his name was James so tell me which you like better.. we now debating first names since my husband says hadley doesnt go with james.. i just found the name emerson and i have falling in love with it but my husband says it sounds like a boys name... help us out please