Trying to conceive, but what's the best way??

[Lalababy2010]

I am 18 years old and me and my fiancée have decided to settle down and have our own little family. We're trying for a baby but not sure what positions are the best chance of conceiving.  We're hoping to conceive this year, what are the chances? And also when are the best time's to have intercourse? As we were thinking of having intercourse quite a few times a week, but i was told that this might not be a good idea as we have to wait for the sperm count to get high is this true? As i have no i idea on this subject lol.. I would have tried the on-line Fertility Calculator, but i am sometimes irregular, so I gather there wouldn't be much point in relying on that :/ Any answers will be a great deal of help.. Hope to hear from you all soon (:

[Lalababy2010]

Sorry about that, i meant pre-seed!

[Lalababy2010]

Thank-you for your advice, & you've helped me get a better understanding on when the best times are.. & i most deffenatly will take a look at the baby-seed product! Congratulations on your Baby boy, Thanks again.

[EmsMom07]

There are many things that you can do to TTC (Try To Conceive) for instance you can chart your basal body temp at the same time each day to detect when you will ovulate, check your CM (Cervical Mucus), use OPK's (Ovulation Predictor Test) they also tell you when you ovulate, if you don't want to spend a lot of money on them you can always buy the tests at the dollar store. Also after I had my IUD removed in July 2009 I tried almost everything imaginable, such as keeping my legs up for 30min after baby dancing to make sure that no sperm got out, stayed on the bottom, since I read that if the women's on top more sperm will come out, etc. But after 6 1/2 months of trying and no luck I read about a product called pre-seed found at babyhopes.com, it's suppose to be the only lubricant safe for sperm, and it also helps get the sperm where it needs to go, I thought I might as well get it since I had nothing else to lose, and I was going on 7 months of TTC. So that month I used my OPK's and got a positive one on January 6th, 2010, my husband and I baby danced late that night using the pre-seed, and then early morning of the 7th. I finally got my BFP (Big Fat Positive) on January 19th, 2010, I am now 30 weeks and 1 day pregnant with a healthy baby boy =0) So I recommend this product to EVERYONE, since I really think that this is what gave me my BFP! Also try to remember that it can take an average of 18 months for a healthy couple to conceive. Well I hope this helps, and good luck!