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8914177 tn?1412873164

To find out or not??

Is it better to know the sex of ur baby or to keep as suprise? With my first child i kept as suprise ive got 19 days till my 20 week scan cant make my mind up wether to find out or not

What do you thinks easier knowing or not??
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8914177 tn?1412873164
I kept my first child as a surprise dont ask how i did that cuz i dont nw lol just didnt know if it was better to know but looks like it better to nw :) 19 days till i found out then lol
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10069532 tn?1407594111
I'm 28 weeks and I want to know so bad, but my baby doesn't want to show it's goodies (which I am proud of, personally.)
In the US, there is hardly anything gender neutral, so it would probably be best to find out.
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7174950 tn?1406661109
I live in the UK and I'm having 1 and its better to know but if you did keep it a surprise it will be hard to not no but it will be a nice surprise lol its up to you hun xx
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8914177 tn?1412873164
When do u find out :) av u got long left  
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9623228 tn?1406019441
It's better to know.  I want to know so bad.
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8914177 tn?1412873164
Ok thank use :) think its going to more likely to find out i bought few stuff like winnie the pooh baby grow and romper suit i guess it will be nice either buying blue or pink :)
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I didn't want to find out with my son but I did and was best thing I did so I could buy the bits like clothes again I live in UK so no baby shower all though iv seen a fair few recently and I divided to find out again with this little lady as I wanted to know do I need to wash all my son's stiff or just natural stuff and buy pink and I'm glad I did as I washed all nataural and bought pink :)
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10064121 tn?1415176073
I found it to be easier knowing. Here in the US there is so much gender based products. I found it hard to shop for gender neutral clothing, bedding, etc. I found out I'm having a boy so I was also able to make my decision about circumcision, his name and stuff like that. But I mostly found out so I could buy clothing and items.
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9700808 tn?1405488881
Oh yes it would lol it's a hard decision
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8914177 tn?1412873164
Im not having baby shower i live in uk not many people here have them here... My partner says hes finding out wether i want to or not he sed he wont tell me but think that will get on my nervs and make me want to know lol :)
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9700808 tn?1405488881
The good part about knowing is shopping early i guess. Maybe u can be surprised at your baby shower . Im not sure lol
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