It gets hard yeah and tightens and I feel so much pressure I know I'm dilating more but I feel like her head is really low now. And thank you I will call just to make sure everything is okay.
I would contact your doctor just to be sure its normal. I was about to say that sounds normal until you mentioned the red.
When your stomach is cramping does it get hard? It could be braxton hicks contractions - which are good to have - it's preparing your body for birth. I had BHC's for 6 weeks straight.
The pain after peeing I'm not sure about... I don't ever remember having that.
I'd call your dr... just to be safe. Good luck to you!
I have the same thing and I have no idea what it's all about!
Not when I pee I got the pain up inside me after
Id contact your doctor/midwife. If it hurts when you pee, it could be a urine infection but im not sure.