Trying to Conceive

[girlbaby1]

Hi ladies!!!! I need help to get pregnant any advice been trying for a year now doc say Im ok

[girlbaby1]

THANKS! i went to the doc they say im fine. and that i should be happy and stay with two who r they to say how many i can have im not on welfare i support my children. its just hard trying and nothing i know it will happen when the time is right cuz it is truly a blessing but everytime u turn on the news he hear these mother killing or beating their children to death or havin them and tossin them in a garbage that hurts what is the reason for them having. well lets c what happens this month i ovulated sept 28 - oct 2.

[chantal21]

OPK is an Ovulation Predictor Kit...exactly what you stated you are using. =)
(just in shortened terms)  I would say if you hit the 2 year mark and still no pregnancy, I would seek a fertility specialist and maybe they can pin-point what is going on. Everyone is different when it comes to conceiving. Sometimes it's the woman who has a problem and sometimes it's the man....and sometimes nothing is wrong with either, and there are still problems. God has a plan for everyone, and He will give you a baby in His time. I know it's so hard to wait....I went through 2 miscarriages before I finally had a pregnancy that was successful. They were unexplained...but everything happens for a reason. Hang in there!
I would just try, try, and keep on trying until it happens! Life is a miracle, and it's a wonder that women can even get pregnant in the first place! Our bodies are so amazing. But don't give up!! Have lots of sex and try not to focus on every little thing....most times it happens when we least expect it!! Good luck! <3

[girlbaby1]

by the way i did go to the health food store i tried the womb blend a nasty tea u drink oh wow it was bad that was for a week plus they gave me an inferitily drop to mix with water or juice and i take prenatal vitamins

[girlbaby1]

well congrats it dont seem like anything is working for me

[girlbaby1]

thanks for respondin what is OPK? i track my ovulation with a kit and i do have sex between day 10 and day 16 after my period and still nothing. my legs r as high as they can go lol and nothing doctor say everything is ok but didnt run any test. me and my fiancee are dyin for a baby i am ready to give up or adopt but it wont be the same

[KellyA74]

I used OPK's like chantal21 mentioned......after a couple of months I pretty much knew when I would ovulate......We tried for 5 months, got pregnant, lost the pregnancy, tried again for 4 months and got pregnant again and I'm now 30 weeks.  I swear (not sure if it was luck though)....we BD'd EVERY day (sometimes 2x a day) for the one week during ovulation...and bang!  It worked......That's just my experience and I swear by it and if we decide to try again, that'll be our first months project!  LOL!  Best of luck!

[chantal21]

Have you tried an OPK? That may help you pin-point when you ovulate so you know when to try every month. When I was trying to get pregnant, I would make sure to start a few days before ovulation and even a couple of days after, just in case I miscalculated. And after sex, I would prop a pillow under me and lay there for at least 20-30min. to try to increase my chances. You can also try some teas or go to a healthfood store and ask for some herbal remedies for conceiving. (always double check with your doc as well) Basically, try to do it as much as possible! Or at least every other day. =)