Going mental...urgent!

[e9okay]

Hiya, my partner and i have been trying for a baby since feb this year and every month i get the fake pregnany feeling and then AF arrives and i cant help but feel foolish and disappointed. However this month just feels different, but then it could be my mind playing tricks on me again, so here i am asking for your opinions. My period began 7th May and ended monday 10th/tuesday 11th, which is quite a short one for me, but i didnt think anything of it. My partner and i have been very active in the bedroom...and out of the bedroom...sorry tmi lol. We worked out i would possibly be ovulating friday 21st so my gorg man took the day off work and we spent it in bed (sorry tmi) we have made love everyday since and then last night i was trying to sleep but i had a niggerly cramping feeling in my lower abdomen and lower back, the feeling is back today along with a slight fluttering feeling but not constant, just on and off. Ive had no implantation bleeding but a friend suggested that what i felt lastnight and today could be implantation. I feel bloated and my breasts are a bit tender with slightly sensitive nipples but not how they usually would feel a week before AF usually they are killing me by now! So AF is due next friday, partner is taking me away for a long weekend to help take my mind off of it. But i really just wanted someone elses opinion, i dont want to get my hopes up and think that this time we could actually have been sucessful, and im thinking that my mind is playing tricks, if im going to go with my gut feeling i would say we are pregnant, but then again that could be my mind over ruling my gut instinct. Waiting till next friday is a killer to see if AF arrives. So....what do you all think? Many thanks x x x

[Freds_Baby]

My boyfriend and I have been TTC since February as well. Best of luck to you! SSBD!!!

[e9okay]

Haha, yeah it is sweet of him to take me away, but he is probably fed up with me going on about babies all the time! lol. We have decided not to tell anyone we are trying as we didnt want any expectations or others negitive opinions, so he is the only one i can talk to about it, hence why i have just joined this site so save his poor ears :-)

Thankyou for your reply :-)

x x x

[gillianl]

i've given up on looking for symptoms as i've had them more and more for the past 3 years and still waiting to conceive.  3-4 months hasn't really been that long in ttc it can take a healthy couple anything up to 2 years to conceive.  Don't stress and worry enjoy ttc and relax more it will happen when the time is right.  i hope you do get your BFP best of luck

[Cassandrajane]

One thing.. I wish my man was like that LOL!!!
Erm I would sayy... it would be too early to test atm... But if you wait untill after your due date for AFand it doesnt come i would see your GP for blood test HCG levels as these are more acurate...
I know waiting is SO hard and SO annoying!
I wishh you the best and you get the babyy you wants!

xxx