Trying to concive but not working!?

[FallenAngel1228]

Hello, I am having alot of problems getting pregnant. Now this may get very graphic but there is no other way to expain what my situation is.
My husband is i a wheelchair, and has been since he was 21. He is now 38. He does have an erectile dysfunction, from loss of blood flow, but he does ejactulate when he soft. So, he more or less puts it in me with his fingers holding it in me, and he ejaculates. He does ***, and his *** is so thick it doesn't come out of me at all.
My period started the 12th and ended the 16th of last month, and I dont know really how to calculate my fertile times, I do chart, but so far it hasnt worked.
Im looking for a way to calculate my fertile time, other than ovulation tests since they are very expensive here, and we dont have a credit card. Will someone help us please! He is getting very depressed!

[FallenAngel1228]

medicaid dont pay for that so she wont. Im gaining so much weight im not sure why, unless started bloating like 2-3 weeks ago, I even got a new stretch mark on my stomach, and my breasts hurt

[PriceFamily91611]

Ur prolly not ovulating that was my problem, ask ur doctor to refer u to a fertility specialist

[FallenAngel1228]

yes he has and it came back fine

[Apeydef]

Have you has his sperm tested to make sure it is not him?

[sabby88]

the app will ask u for the 1st day of ur last period and thn it calculates it frm ther. u do need to no tht though so i recommend you make note of it the next time ur on.

[FallenAngel1228]

well i dont know how many days it is between periods cuz i never really know

[sabby88]

i downloaded a free app on my phone called fertility friend. it realy helped me to track down my ovulation days n also emaild me daily on hints n tips. good luck:-)

[FallenAngel1228]

its hard for it not to be a chore.

[Shirano]

Yup what jusshadababy3112 said

[jusshadababy3112]

My days is a downloadable app that u can get on your phone... I gt preggo frm having a lot of sex... N when he's going to ejaculate.... He pushes his penis UP AS FAR AS HE CAN...then let's out his glory juice!...do that right after/ before....

[jusshadababy3112]

Your period comes

[FallenAngel1228]

what is mydays?

[Shirano]

Oh I see. Well I would go to my days and track what you can. Have sex every other day for best results. Good luck.

[FallenAngel1228]

they are really expensive

[Shirano]

There is no clinic for just regular care?

[FallenAngel1228]

for women that are already pregnant, not trying. I think I am just not ovulating

[Shirano]

There are free clinics in my area that people who don't have doctors can go to. Are there any in yours?

[FallenAngel1228]

I dont have a doctor right now so thats kinda hard

[Shirano]

My days app has worked for a lot of women. Also maybe talk to your doctor about the situation.