UPSET (not really) at the pregger woman :)

[msgorgeous]

Im not really upset with you woman at all really i just needed a catchy phrase so you would read this :) So most of you all feel fat or feel you look fat but you know what your not. It really does bother me to see you guys say that about yourselves im sure its part hormones and so forth maybe your just concence (SP?) about what others think of you. your all beautiful pregnant belly and all. i know i cant change the way you all feel about yourselves. sure youve put on some weight some more then others but you know what your pregnant thats a joy all in it self and if that means gaining some weight dont you think its worth it :) YOUR all gorgeous :) if someone says wow your big well who cares your baby likes to eat lol every womans body is differant you all know that :)

I dont want you all to take this post the wrong way and start an argument i just wanted you all to know your all beautiful. this is not what so ever directed towards anyone. i just wanted you all to know how i felt so plz again dont take it the wrong way :)

Remember ladies pregnancy is a beautiful wonderful amazing thing your all soo very gorgeous thats the truth :)

[msgorgeous]

mami1323 thank you :) i know what you mean. i dont think the hollywood females will ever feel comfortable in there own bodys. its not easy living up to them what so ever

[mami1323]

I didn't take it wrong at all.  I think it's sweet what you are saying.  I think it's hard being a woman in general...pregnant or not.  We have such negative self images about our body.  Look at all these actresses and models that we have to live up to.  Not easy.  They are so screwed up as well.  Too skinny, too fat...they are confused as well.  That's why they are such yo-yo's with their weight.  

[msgorgeous]

yes i was once for sure i had a m/c in january but it was early. but not pregnant to where i know how you woman feel about the weight gain. im sure id be in the same boat as you woman. if you took this post the wrong way im sorry like i said i wasnt really mad at all. i just wanted you woman to know that pregnant woman are beautiful no matter what size you are etc....It bothers me to see woman pregnant or not say that there fat etc... thats all

[kelliestarr]

Have you been pregnant????

[msgorgeous]

oh i know its not on purpose and im sure it cant be helped but to feel that way and im sure many ppl contribute to you feeling that way. i just wanted all you to know what i felt about it :) i look about 5 months pregnant but im not pregnant lol i got chubb which i do not like it it makes me feel unattractive, but if i start to see my self beautiful curves and all then maybe ppl can see me as beautiful too:) just last week i had a 9 year old boy ask me if i was prego i told him no im just fat he then said i need to lay off all food. which was rude but i didnt let it get to me. i like food so what lol and im sure when im pregnant i will proly be feeling tha same way as you guys do which will make me a total hypocrite

[mami1323]

Oh don't get me wrong, I loved being pregnant and I so miss my belly but it's really hard to adjust to the changes sometimes.  Post pregnancy is worse though.  My body will never be the same.  I have a stretched out belly with stretchmarks and my thighs just don't want to seem to go back down to size.  It's just some tough changes but I wouldn't change being pregnant or having my son for anything in the world.  He is my life and l loved having him grow in my belly.

[pmperez]

I love my belly, not my boobs, and not my aching back and hips, but I wouldnt change any of it...I didnt just want a baby, I wanted to be pregnant and experience all there is with it...this may sound crazy but I feel prettier than before I got pregnant...maybe cause I was just fat for no reason..but now I have a reason....lol

[mami1323]

Speaking from a former preggo, it's not on purpose that we start feeling this way.  Your body changes soooo much that it's a little frightening.  I don't know about everyone else but it's not the belly that really got to me.  I loved the growing belly and thought it was beautiful.  It was the thighs that expanded (with the cellulite), the spider veins that started to appear, the fattening of the arms, the spreading of the nose, the swelling of the ankles, feet and hands.  To me, I think pregnancy is gorgeous but when actually going through it, I felt so unattractive.  Plus, your hormones are nuts so you ar up and down, up and down all of the time.  Just my thoughts.

[msgorgeous]

:)

[msgorgeous]

diva_lorri

thank you :) i dont think your all complaining or being selfish at all. i suppose its part of pregnancy lol i just wanted you all to know that your beautiful no matter what size you are. I hate the fact that tv has made woman feel there not beautiful unless your skinny and a model/actress. etc. If you feel that your are beautiful then who gives a **** about what others think about you :)


Ladies i must apologize for saying fat that was just so rude of me...

[msgorgeous]

LOL Twinie i think your beautiful pregnant or not :) you will always be beautiful to me always :) wow tw what you said was beautiful :) your a true preganova (like casanova) lol

[diva_lorri]

i agree with you and you put it beautifully...
ive had the odd whinge and poor me im tired moment but at the end of the day I remember and appreciate that it took me many years to get here and all though I may have reached my goal (nearly anyway Im 37.5 weeks) other ladies may still be trying and need our positivity to inspire them not our complaining making us seem selfish.

:-) plenty of baby dust and happy days to all

[msgorgeous]

"Making a decison to have a child--its momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking outside youe body.
-Elizabeth Stone

Everything grows rounder and wider, and weirder.And i sit here in the middle of it all and wonder who in the world you will turn out to be.
-Carrie Fisher

[casandbaby]

How rude of me... I agree I think all women are beautiful pregnant or not. Pregnant women are illuminating :) wonderous creatures who have an amazing ability, which surpasses the mans by far!

[casandbaby]

hey you didn't say that to me when i was preggo LoL