Aa
Is any one else child irratating them?
Im 32 wk and my 3 yr old is about to have me in jail. She will not listen to me. Keep tellin me what shes gonna do. Do any one else have these issues
Lol...its natural we all go through it...Sometimes our children like yo test us...they just want more attention but I don't play that I lay down the law...
My 2 1/2 year old is the same!! He's driving me up the wall, good thing I'm only 6w4d and it has some time to pass over before his baby brother or sister comes!! It's funny because we waited to try until he was at a good stage, listening, etc, now look! :(
omg omg omg yes yes i have a 4.5 yr old he will be 5 like nd 2 weeks omg and somethings i feel like i want to kill him ,,, he talk back and ask me why ......about eveything .. he never did that and now my 13 is talking back like omg i told i going to have to jump on her to. They think mommy dont feel good we can do what ever but no not at all . I had to show them i took eveything everything nd i mean eveything out they room ,,, they dont have doors up there anymore lol i was so over them
but hey i still love them
but hey i still love them
I'll tell u what I did, I was pregnant with my 4th, my husband was in the military & gone ALL THE TIME. I started keeping a journal.i write in it in everyday, every time somebody pissed me off. It helped, a lot. Now, so many years later I look back through it & say to myself omg u were freaking crazy lol. I wouldn't ever let anyone else read it bc it might hurt ppl's feelings, so I may have to destroy it before I die lol. But for now remember all these hormones are temp. U guys will do fine, take a deep breath, remember how it feels to be a child, how little say so u actually get in life, it might give ua little bit more patience for ur lo's.
totally same thing. My 2.5 year old is a disaster when she isn't listening..it was hard to have a second baby :( but it worked out. Only everyday now I am a nervous rack with both of them!
Omg i have a 2 year old n im 38+5 weeks prego n shes a right madem! Shes bein sooo naughty n has a right attitude shes actin like shes 13 years old ahhh im going crazy
Look into the PDI therapy. - parent directed interaction. 5 mins a day only...and I swear...yes I will swear because its proven dramatic results in under a month, your child will behave better than ever. My child would hit spit scream...not go to bed...not stay in time out...nothing.......3 years old.....I almost lost it. To the point where spanking didn't even work (turns out positive correction gets better results and attention than negative). after a week and half....my son no long hit...kicked...spit..yelled at me.. or anything. Time outs are 99% better and he goes to bed at 730 and stays in bed!
With the PDI "special time" and a bedtime routine combined....my son has done a 180 from h3ll child to angel. And believe me NY stress level is way down and he is so much easier to handle.
Btw I also have a 2 year old but he doesn't act that way, but the special time is still beneficial.
There is a second part after you have mastered the PDI which is a directed time. If a child still needs work...which most children have turned around by then, then this is the next step which I am doing with my son to further acceptable behavior.
If ANYONE wants more info please message me and I'll help you all I can. A family psychologist has helped us and i can at least give you basics if you can't get one.
Best if luck...i know how hard it is with that behavior!
17 1/2 weeks.....& two boys under 4
With the PDI "special time" and a bedtime routine combined....my son has done a 180 from h3ll child to angel. And believe me NY stress level is way down and he is so much easier to handle.
Btw I also have a 2 year old but he doesn't act that way, but the special time is still beneficial.
There is a second part after you have mastered the PDI which is a directed time. If a child still needs work...which most children have turned around by then, then this is the next step which I am doing with my son to further acceptable behavior.
If ANYONE wants more info please message me and I'll help you all I can. A family psychologist has helped us and i can at least give you basics if you can't get one.
Best if luck...i know how hard it is with that behavior!
17 1/2 weeks.....& two boys under 4
I can relate to all of you im 39+3 wks and wow im surprise I haven't been thrown in jail. I am getting to the point were I want to spank my 2 yr old. She is beyond defiant and she gets worse when were in public. She throws her,trantrums while were at the store if she doesn't get something she wants. She never behaved like that in the beginning of my pregnancy. The further I get the worse she is. I cry everyday because I don't know what to do. Time outs are a joke to her and I am seriously at the point were im thinking maybe one spank will show her im serious. I don't know what else to do. I felt so bad I thought I was the only one.
Omg... its not just my kids then...I have 4½ and 3½ year olds... and their just horrible at the
Moment. Eldest isn't too bad, but neither will
Listen to either me nor their daddy. Youngest won't eat...I have to keep feeding him.Else I'm up in the night cause he's hungry.. and he just
Runs off when ever he gets the chance...my dad had put up a fence and gate for me cause
I can't keep chasing him down the street.... I'm guessing its the fact that I'm pregnant and
They sence things will change.. or I'm just
On edge all the time.. I try not to loose it and stay calm with them but its not easy... 10 days left till no,3 arrives.... but I'm pulling my hair out here.
Moment. Eldest isn't too bad, but neither will
Listen to either me nor their daddy. Youngest won't eat...I have to keep feeding him.Else I'm up in the night cause he's hungry.. and he just
Runs off when ever he gets the chance...my dad had put up a fence and gate for me cause
I can't keep chasing him down the street.... I'm guessing its the fact that I'm pregnant and
They sence things will change.. or I'm just
On edge all the time.. I try not to loose it and stay calm with them but its not easy... 10 days left till no,3 arrives.... but I'm pulling my hair out here.
Im just so happy im not alone cuz im so ready to begg my dr to admitt me to the hospital for any dumb reason just to get a break
Yes, I'm 35wks & I have a 2yr old boy. He is absolutely driving me INSANE!! He was good up until I got pregnant & now he's super defiant, he kicks me, punches me, head butts me, yells back, just straight up being an ***!!! I feel bad for how I feel & I know its the hormones but geeeeez! Its nice to know I'm not alone feeling this way.
Ashdensmommy my kids are talking baby too which was funny at first but now its just annoying and they're dad babies them a lot too especially my 2yr old daughter
Our 5 and 3 year old think it is ok just to listen to daddy when they want to and theg never listen to me. they also like to talk and act like a baby now and throw huge fits. Bad thing is if i have them on time out for whatever, daddy walks in and babies them so im getting nowhere and im beyond mad!! Talking to their daddy doesnt help either he just says they are kids but when he puts them on time out its fine . :(
I wasnt even goin to get started on my bf we break up every two weekd cuz something small he did I cant stand he dony kno wat hes gettin day to day
I can honestly say though my husband pi ss es me off way more lol I can't wait to be back to normal ..I have absolutely no patience .
Mine have always been a handful too but they are also worse I hope its just a phase they're going thru because idk how much more I can take especially with a newborn baby
They drive us crazy and when they want something they will not take no for an answer and the oldest one seems to be worse I think they make cry at least once every other day :(
Lexsmommy I feel for u my daughter destroyed my room while I was in the hospital on sunday. Mommyofanazis I thought it was because of the pregnacy but she always been a handful now its worse
My daughter just went to bed cuz if she tells me another thing shes not doin or just ignore what im tellin her ill b havin her brother in jail. My boyfriend could handle her but my mom kicked him out In april and now my mom is useless when it comes to her. Now its all up to me
Omg I thought I was just being a bad mother I have a 2 and a 3 yr old and they're driving me crazy I am also 32 wks and I just can't tale it anymore I seriously think I am getting depressed because idk what to do with them anymore I am constantly asking God for patience if it weren't for him I would have gone crazy they seem to not be listening at all and they have tantrums over the littlest things wonder if it has anything to do w the pregnancy and I hope it goes away soon
I'm having the same problem! I have a 2 year old and I'm 34 weeks. I can't even go pee without him destroying something! actually just 30 mins ago I went to the restroom and he had broken 2 of my picture frames dragged my laptop to the middle of the living room floor and had nearly knocked over my tv!....I wasn't to happy so he went straight to bed!
She has always been a handfull but lately its been so I unbearable I just want to run away. Im do glad its not just me
Have an Answer?
You are reading content posted in the Pregnancy Community
Get information and tips on how to help you choose the right place to deliver your baby.
Get the facts on how twins and multiples are formed and your chance of carrying more than one baby at a time.
Learn about the risks and benefits of circumcision.
What to expect during the first hours after delivery.
Learn about early screening and test options for your pregnancy.
Learn about testing and treatment for GBS bacterium.
