irregular sac without fetal pole

[pinkygull]

hi my name is bina, my  problem is that im 6 weeks pregnent  but there is no fetalpole and size of my sac is irregular and decresing ,doctor told me its a miscarrige,but i want to wait untill the natural prosses has been started ,plz  help

[IsabellasMommu]

Sending Prays for you to get threw this.

[jusshadababy3112]

That's a really neat idea...I didn't have a miscarriage.. but I have experienced a recent loss one was my daughter... Earlier this year... N the othe was my aunt whom I was close to like a mother... I think I may take this one into consideration... N put it into play

[TuesdayPatience]

I am so so sorry for your loss.  Like dancerz82 said, there is not a lot more to share medically that the doctor has not already covered.  However, when my best friend went through her miscarriage at home, she said a few things helped:

Don't go through this alone - if the father can be there and you want him there, then he should be there.  If you prefer to have your mother or a girlfriend or someone else, reach out to them.  Also, If the pain becomes too much, go to the doctor (or the ER if it is after-hours) - don't let them tell you if you are in pain or not...it is your body, your experience.  This is a good time to have the father or another support person to help stand up for you.

Finally, another friend and I did a celebration of life ceremony with my friend when she was feeling up to it.  We went to a local state park - with no one around - and released balloons with messages for the baby, gave her a box to keep remembrances and thoughts of her baby, and just listened to her.  She cried, she laughed, and we were there for it all.  This was over seven years ago and she still has the box on a shelf in her front room...next to the pictures of her two beautiful daughters (one born before the miscarriage and the other after).  

My heart and prayers are with you.  If you would like to talk, send me a message anytime.  

Peace & Blessings

[dancerz82]

I don't know if there is anything we can do or advise you on. If you want to wait and the doctor said that's ok then wait. Sorry for your loss, thoughts are worth you.