I was 19 weeks when i really started to recognize my baby's movement. But at 9 weeks even when i got to see him physically move during an ultrasound i couldnt feel anything.
I started to feel my babygirl at 16 weeks.. now im 20w and I feel her a little bit more harder .. but it depends everybody is different :)
Some moms can feel flutters as early as 13-14 weeks however it is most common to feel baby around 17-20 weeks, some first time moms don't feel anything until 22-23 weeks though and that's normal
The first time I felt was 18w 2d but everyone is different. And this was the first time I felt it and KNEW exactly what it was cause she kicked super hard. Good luck mama