What should I do???

[Lylamom]

I'm 16 weeks and I have a 2 year old girl. She started going to daycare little bit before her 2nd birthday but I soon realize what knowledge she was bringing home each day.  They put my child in time out and I'm totally against it and someone is pinching her I'm not sure if it's the teachers. No one there has no knowledge of where this is coming from so I took my 4weeks vacation from work and pulled her from the school. I'm scared to return back to work because I don't know if I can trust my child with anyone at this point. My husband says I'm over reacting and its my hormones but I disagree. At this point I'm just scare of my child being with anyone. What should I do??? He says hire a nanny but I feel like that would be a horrible decision. Who knows what they will do as well!!

[HappyMommyBear]

any other friends maybe?? id say get a nanny.. you can profile the nanny if she is a nice person.. try the older ones and an already mother.. they have mother instincts..

[Lylamom]

We have no family members that can keep her. My grandmother kept her up until 1 but it's to much stress on her. She getting old and my daughter is too active for her to keep up with. Not to many options at this point. It's just so stressful and my husband is just like what ever u want and I'm driving myself insane with all this crazy thinking.

[nursej22]

Okay I see now. Yeah I definitely wouldn't take her back there. Is there anyother daycares or any family member that you could have watch her?

[Lylamom]

I simple believe in repeating to a child what she or he did wrong and teaching them the right way to go about the issue.Putting a child in time out is not teaching them anything. Positive discipline is always better. I just feel like thats not building trust with a child when u tell them to go to a corner and cry when they can't cry anymore. Before I enrolled her there they told me they do not use that technique but yet my child knows about it.

[misvanessa]

*love. ;)

[misvanessa]

I'm sorry your having that experience. I'm a preschool teacher and my first thing of customer service it's building a relationship with the child and adult. If you feel like this, go straight to the director/ supervisor. Your feelings and the safety of your child matters to them. They know you Live your child, your mom. :) good luck.

[nursej22]

Hire an older ugly lady lol. But on a serious note tge day care thing unfortunately unless they have cameras we cant prevent or do anything about it. I have one person with my child since birth...trust issues but I decided to put the baby in day care once he or she can talk to let me know who is doing what. But also why are you against time outs out of curiosity?

[nursej22]

Hire an older ugly lady lol. But on a serious note tge day care thing unfortunately unless they have cameras we cant prevent or do anything about it. I have one person with my child since birth...trust issues but I decided to put the baby in day care once he or she can talk to let me know who is doing what. But also why are you against time outs out of curiosity?