Implantation bleeding or my period?!?!?!

[APMcMillin09]

Hi. I'm new to this site and I've tried going to other sources and sites for advice, answers, suggestions.....and I'm getting nowhere. Hopefully by posting this here, I'll be able to get some answers...so here I go. ((KINDA LONG and do apologize for TMI))

I'm 26, just got married in October and my husband and I are TTC. We started trying almost 3 weeks after we got married. Anyway, I've been of BC since last spring/summer of 2008 (because then I didn't have an insurance, couldn't afford insurance at the time to pay for BC). Well not sure if this matters or it may..but my periods are sorta wacky. LOL! One month I'll have a 31 day cycle, next month 29, next month 32....continue on....I thought I was to have my monthy visit the entire week while we were on our Honeymoon...but it actually came the morning we were leaving to head home (from our Honeymoon); that was Friday, Oct. 30, 2009. I bled that day and Saturday - almost heavier than normal..then COMPLETELY stopped bleeding on Sunday, but light bleeding Monday and Tuesday and DONE. So after a few days I decided to sign-up on Femilia.com, referred from a friend who's on that site as well, to keep track of my periods and as well as my ovulation. Well I had also signed-on 2 other sites (MyMonthlyCycles.com and ovulationcalendar.com I believe)....giving the first day of my last menstrual cycle and picking what I think would be my aver. cylces days per month...I was given 3 differents answers of when my expected period is suppose to happen. ONE SITE said that I'd have my period on Nov. 27....never came. SECOND SITE said that I'd have my period on Nov. 30 (yesterday) never came....and THIRD SITE said that I'd get my period Dec. 2 (tomorrow)........well today's Dec. 1 and I went to use the bathroom...I found some bleeding in my panty-liner (which I always wear a panty-linger anway).....I changed to a pad...it was light..then I had to use the bathroom to only pee this time...changed my pad just to see what would happen next..and I've been checking and I have minimal bleeding/spotting...but slight uncomfortable pain in my lower stomach area. I have taken HPT before the 27th thinking I'd get my period..negative. I took one again before the 30th...negative and haven't taken another one since. I'm really hoping to get pregnant NOW..and I know it may take up to 6 months to a year to even get pregnant....but I'm trying to think positive. Also, too, I had made an appointment with a family practice doctor for a complete physical since I haven't been to a doctor in a while (now that I'm under my Husband's insurance) but that's not until the 24th of this month.

What is going one?!?!?! Advice..suggestions....HELP would be greatly appreciated!

[wannabeamom01]

At times we release more than 1 egg. So it is still possible to have slight bleeding and get pregnant. Also, 6-8days after fertilization of the egg, it descends to the uterus to get implanted, that will cause mild bleeding also.

[spade22]

Your period may just be a little late - it happens.

If you dont get your normal period in a week, take a test.  Good luck.