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Whose my Baby Daddy???

My fiancee and I have been together 4 years and he ALWAYS use a condom. He became a father as a teenager so didn't want another unplanned child. We've never been pregnant. The past 5 months our relationship has gotten bad, almost violent (or threats of). We sleep in separate rooms (his choice) and I missed the intimacy.

Recently I had a one-night stand where no protection was used. He did ejaculate inside me so I took the Norlevo Morning After Pill the next day.

Two days later my now ex-fiancée initiates sex and I sleep with him, mainly to cover up the guilt of the ONS. As always he uses protection, checks the condom to ensure no leakage.

Today I am 6.6 weeks pregnant and freaking out who the Dad could be? Is it possible that the MAP did not work? Please don't hate as Im beating myself up about it!

PS I am 37, my ex fiancée is 34 and the other guy is 20
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Thank you ! :)
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Regardless f who the dad may be.
1. He's our fiance your not yet stuck w him
2. Threats of violence
3.he very much does not want to be a dad and your most likely preggers w second guy
Get out of there and find someone worthwhile who won't threaten violence to you or your baby
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It's a hard one I personally would think the morning after pill Was safe as I have known a few people to get caught when using condoms...  are u sure u wasn't pregnant before hand?? U need to seek advice although I'd say the only bet is a test when baby's here.. Pregnancy is a blessing .. Look at the positives I'm sure all will work out x
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Thank you for your thoughts. Much appreciated!
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The MAP is not 100% guarrantied to work if the sperm has allready traveled to the egg and you concieved then the MAP has no effect on you . Wheather you take it in 24 hours or not. Sorry bt seems like the ONS is the father. Good Luck.
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Don't want to scare you but I took the map the next morning and I'm now 11wks preg. I'm hoping things will be okay for you. Please stay safe.
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