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Whose my Baby Daddy???

My fiancee and I have been together 4 years and he ALWAYS use a condom. He became a father as a teenager so didn't want another unplanned child. We've never been pregnant. The past 5 months our relationship has gotten bad, almost violent (or threats of). We sleep in separate rooms (his choice) and I missed the intimacy.

Recently I had a one-night stand where no protection was used. He did ejaculate inside me so I took the Norlevo Morning After Pill the next day.

Two days later my now ex-fiancée initiates sex and I sleep with him, mainly to cover up the guilt of the ONS. As always he uses protection, checks the condom to ensure no leakage.

Today I am 6.6 weeks pregnant and freaking out who the Dad could be? Is it possible that the MAP did not work? Please don't hate as Im beating myself up about it!

PS I am 37, my ex fiancée is 34 and the other guy is 20
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I'm currently going through the same thing with my boyfriend and its really hard . See we got into it really badly one day an I left with all the intentions not to come back .... I cheated July 31 an im really shamw to say we didnt use protection but he pulled out . An my boyfriend started doing all of this ceazy stuff that made me wanna go head a make this family work so in the process we ended up having sex Aug 2 an I remember catching very bad cramps on my left side to where I couldn't walk an an week or so later I start feeling alot of pressure in my pelvis area. Aug 17 2 days before my missed period I tested positive for pregnancy.  The doctors said I my conception daelte is Aug 2 an I have a cysts on my left
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Plan b always worked for me.
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for the pass month I been trying to have a baby I have irregular period it come when it want to.I went to the doctor a week ago and they told me I have a urinary track infection (uti) they give me some antibiotic to clear it out in a week me and my bf still have sex and he still came in me every time and we do it everyday and still not pregnant and he love drinking beer he drink it everyday more then 4 pack of beer. I had a miscarriage but I wanna know if there's something wrong with me HELP MEEEEEEE I WANT A BABY TELL ME WHAT TO DO?.people tell me I have to wait until I'm ovulating before or after my period we start having sex right after my period is over and have sex every day until it came back today and still NOTHING:'( :'( :'(  I'm starting to think my miscarriage was the last time I was suppose to get pregnant, I can't think of any other way to get pregnant and to see if ME or him have problem. please help me with a good answer on what to do. HELP both of us :'(
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for the pass month I been trying to have a baby I have irregular period it come when it want to.I went to the doctor a week ago and they told me I have a urinary track infection (uti) they give me some antibiotic to clear it out in a week me and my bf still have sex and he still came in me every time and we do it everyday and still not pregnant and he love drinking beer he drink it everyday more then 4 pack of beer. I had a miscarriage but I wanna know if there's something wrong with me HELP MEEEEEEE I WANT A BABY TELL ME WHAT TO DO?.people tell me I have to wait until I'm ovulating before or after my period we start having sex right after my period is over and have sex every day until it came back today and still NOTHING:'( :'( :'(  I'm starting to think my miscarriage was the last time I was suppose to get pregnant, I can't think of any other way to get pregnant and to see if ME or him have problem. please help me with a good answer on what to do. HELP both of us :'(
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for the pass month I been trying to have a baby I have irregular period it come when it want to.I went to the doctor a week ago and they told me I have a urinary track infection (uti) they give me some antibiotic to clear it out in a week me and my bf still have sex and he still came in me every time and we do it everyday and still not pregnant and he love drinking beer he drink it everyday more then 4 pack of beer. I had a miscarriage but I wanna know if there's something wrong with me HELP MEEEEEEE I WANT A BABY TELL ME WHAT TO DO?.people tell me I have to wait until I'm ovulating before or after my period we start having sex right after my period is over and have sex every day until it came back today and still NOTHING:'( :'( :'(  I'm starting to think my miscarriage was the last time I was suppose to get pregnant, I can't think of any other way to get pregnant and to see if ME or him have problem. please help me with a good answer on what to do. HELP both of us :'(
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Unfortunately, the only sure fired way to tell is a paternity test.  And I would order one once baby's born, because even though they might not be fit for fatherhood, they still need to take responsibility (child support).
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