TTC OR JUST HOLDING OUT?

[faith2086]

JUST THOUGHT I WOULD DO SOMETHING FOR EVERY1..ARE U TTC,GIVING IT A REST OR CAUGHT UP IN THE TWW.

I MYSELF AM HOLDING OUT...TRYING TO FIND SOME ME TIME...NOT WORRYING ABOUT IT AS MUCH..IT DOES COME TO MY MIND AT TIMES..I JUST DECIDED TO WAIT..BUT RIGHT NOW AND FOR A WHILE IM GOING WITH THE FLOW..IF IT HAPPENS IT DOES..IM NOT GOING TO RUSH IT ANYMORE..I WOULD IKE TO BE A PARENT SOME DAY BUT LIKE THE OLD SAYING I CANT MISS WHAT I DONT HAVE..SEEM LIKE IM TRYING HARDER FOR A CHILD THEN MY PERSONAL GOALS..A CHILD IS A GOAL OF MIND..BUT I HAVE TO ACCOMPLISH THE MORE OBVIOUS ONES FIRST..CHANGING MY SURROUNDINGS FRIENDS AND ALL THE PEOPLE WITH THESE BAD THOUGHTS...SEEMS LIKE EVERY1 WANTS U AS LOW AS THEM.IM TO SMART FOR THAT..SO I WILL DO WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE FIRST AND I KNOW GOD WILL BLESS ME WITH A KID.

WHATS UR STORY.?(IF UR TTC HOLD ON TO IT.DONT GIVE UP JUST HAVE FAITH..I HAVE FAITH I JUST NEED TO DO THINGS GODS WAY..AND FOR SOME REASON TODAY HE PUT IN MY HEAD TO JUST ENJOY WHATS GOING ON NOW..HE WILL LET ME BE A MOTHER WHEN HE IS READY..AND NOW I HAVE TO HELP OTHERS IN SOME WAY.BABY DUST TO U LADIES.

[faith2086]

YEAH I CHECK MY OVU..CALENDAR TOO BUT SINCE MY CYCLE HAS BEEN OFF..I HAVE TO LEAVE  IT ALONE. I STILL CHECK IT BUT ITS NOT ACCURATE FOR ME ANYMORE.I ALSO THINK ABOUT IT ALL THE TIME..I SEE PEOPLE NOT WANTING KIDS HAVING THEM AND ALWAYS COMPLAINING...EVER SINCE I LET IT GO..SEX HAS BEEN EVEN BETTER IM NOT FOCUSING ON IT. .I JUST ENJOY THE MOMENT..AND 1 DAY THE BEST WILL COME OUT OF THE SITUATION

[Heatherm4]

I'm somewhat in the same boat as you. My husband and I are letting it happen and not being too overactive in "trying". I keep track of my ovulation and that's pretty much as far as I go. I take my prenatal vitamins and it always sticks in my mind about pregnancy but we don't go much further than that. As time passes and I see a lot of people around me with babies it makes me want one though!!! LOL Baby fever I guess!! But you are right....enjoy what we have now and accept that it will happen when it happens. Good luck and who knows...it might just happen when you take ur mind off it!