absolutely shattered

[MableMouse]

Hey ladies. I had a miscarriage in august and have been trying to conceive ever since, I got my period last month and now again today, it wasn't supposed to be here for a few more days. But last week I was feeling pregnant. I feel like I'm losing my mind. I've seen and heard people say you're really fertile right after a miscarriage. Last time I was pregnant it was a complete accident.. it just happened, why isn't it happening for me now? I can't deal with this much longer.

[MableMouse]

I'm trying to relax but it's just like, all I want in the world and it should be so easy. I had what I wanted but it was taken away. I just want a baby. I really do need to relax..

[thirdtimemum]

I too say just relax! My partner and I were about to start IVF because him fathering a child was so slim, we fell pregnant the month we were supposed to start! We honestly didn't think it could happen naturally, but because we were just enjoying sex and not 'trying' a miracle happened. All the best to you!

[Bri_1985]

I had a miscarriage back in May hun, took me over a month to get through the depression stage. Then I found out in mid-September I was pregnant again. Stay strong as everyone has been advising hun. If you need to/can get some therapy to help you through the depression. It'll happen when you least expect it :)

[PriceFamily91611]

I  feel the  same way.  All I think about is getting pregnant again n my miscarriages also we r having problems idk what to do or think

[Irene7]

Same here! And just after a month I stoped trying next thing you know I'm pregnant! Your time will come:) stay strong .

[MableMouse]

I just feel like getting pregnant and having a baby are all I can think about. And I've just been so depressed. I can't stop thinking about my miscarriage, and another pregnancy. I am really starting to hate myself. I feel useless..

[PriceFamily91611]

I feel like I'm losing my husband and my mind

[Beebian]

So Sorry about that, you are not alone in this..just relax and keep trying you'll get your BFP sooner than you know... and its gonna be STICKY! **hugs**

[Shirano]

I went through the same thing. I miscarried last October and then didn't conceive until June. My advice is just let it happen have fun with your husband and relax. If you are stressing out about when to have sex and such it just takes all the fun away. You will havea better chance of conceiving if you relax. Also don't give up. It will happen and usually after a miscarriage the next time you get pregnant it's a super sticky baby and goes to term. I hope this helps sweetie. If you need to talk feel free to message me,