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7732297 tn?1397446837

already moms with a boy and girl..

Which is easier to raise? Lol my daughter is 4 and im expecting twins boys. Im nervous because my girl is such a needy child lol she is overdramatic so im curious is it easier raising boys or girls? :)
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To me as their ages change it goes back and forth.  My son who is now 10 1/2 has been the most laid back polite child ever is now getting all moody and doesn't want to do things unless he feels like it.  Where my daughter since age three has been the biggest drama queen is now my laid back how can I help you child and she is 8 1/2.  Its been fun and different with both of them.
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7552771 tn?1469929649
I think it depends on your child's personality and the way you raise them. My sister has boys and they are all crazy, wild, rude, sloppy and just not good kids. And I know I'm not being bias about my son because even she asks why is he so good. But my son is quite polite he has his hyper moments and his rare moments of being a brat but he's so easy and just a wonderful child. I don't know what I did or if it's just him but I hope this boy turns out just like him. Even my bf(not my first sons real dad) says he hopes ours is just like him because he's such a loving caring child.
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For me my son was so easy he was born first and was the perfect baby and toddler his little sister on the other hand DRAMA since before she was even born ... She is now 5 and my son is 8 and nothing has changed my daughter is constantly bugging her brother and she's so dramatic and bossy and stubborn I love you to pieces tho ... My son is still much more laid back and a lot less needy but boys can get pretty hyper sometimes. In my opinion boys are easier but boys and girls each come with their own sets of pros and con's ... Lol ... Good luck to u
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7732297 tn?1397446837
Yeah i have a feeling my boys are gonna be alot easier to deal with since my daughter is such a handful. I mean she is very polite and smart but ive always treated her like a princess(because clearly she is lol) and now she thinks she can get her way with everything, so its my fault as well that she acts, like that.
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I have a 7 yr old boy who is so polite well mannered and well behaved......also a 4 year gurl who is a drama queen and so needy ...and I am currently 8 weeks pregnant I dont care what I end up having but I personally think boys are way easier !!! Good luck
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My daughter is a perfect child lol. Shes 6 now and shes so good and helpful. Im so scared also because im having a boy and they seem so naughty! I think its down to how we raise them and their personality maybe?
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7758733 tn?1402589420
I want to know too! I have 18mnth son, and he is so chill! He was the best baby and the best to have around even now. But I have a girl coming in August and I'm so nervous, girls are so needy and b*tchy. Lol
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7732297 tn?1397446837
Lol yeah my mom has 3girls and 1boy and she said i was the only easy one , my brother was a super naughty toddler and so are my sisters. I love my daughter but she can be a big time drama queen, so im hoping these boys are less difficult:)
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7385901 tn?1402928016
I think they are equal. I have a 4 yr old girl and 5 yr old boy. I can't really tell a difference! They both get cranky, lazy, crazy like little energy bunnies. Lol Its all fun though!
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