Unfortunately during the last 2 months your are going to have to pee a lot more because the baby is getting so big and pressing on your bladder. I felt I had to go all the time the last 2 months of my pregnancies. You may also have a UTI, a simple urine test will tell you if thats the case. And as far as gaining weight, if you midwife isnt concerned I wouldnt be either. I gained a lot of extra weight towards the end because I was retaining a lot of fluid and swelling. That may be the case with you as well. After I had my son I lost 20 lbs in 2 weeks but I was retaining a lot of fluid so it left quick. Anyway, hope this helps. Good luck to you.
I wouldn't be worried about the weight. I put on 8 pounds in two weeks and they weren't worried. The baby is putting on a lot of weight from this point on and among other things you will too. Unless your doctor is worried, you shouldn't be either. As for the bathroom, I know what you mean. But it only seems to get worse. I'm going at least every 20 minutes. (no infection either) have them check to see if you might have one. If you don't, you know it's just from the baby.
I had a month where I gained 10 pounds and like you was shocked my Dr. told me there is usually 1 month in pregnancy where the mom gains quite a bit and then it levels back out. I wouldnt be worried unless your Dr. is. As for the peeing....its not going to get any better until the baby is out! I once actually thought I should just pee my pants...I was driving home at the time. It hurt so bad! Then when I got home it was like a teaspoon of pee! I told my dh I should have just peed my pants, he said ya but then it would have been alot. Murphys law.
Haha thanks ladies! I had a feeling it was normal, it was just one of those things that I thought I would ask since it seemed like so much weight in such a little time. And I also figured the peeing thing was normal too, just one of the not so great pregnancy symptoms haha. I got urine taken at my appointment yesterday to check for bacteria and stuff so I'm pretty sure she will tell me if I have an infection or something.
Thanks for the help :)
I know how you feel, though its worse with me. I gained 14 lbs in one month, got banned from drinking juice because I was gaining so much, then the next month I thought I was doing real well, and all of a sudden I gained another 10 lbs overnight, and a few days later another four! Of course that was just before my next OB appointment too lol..
I'm having real bad water retention as well, I have stretch marks all over my legs from it :/ Hopefully since it is a water retention problem, we will lose our weight fast when we have our lil ones.