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am i pregnant?very stressed

hi..i am a 25 yr old grl living in india..the society and background im from is quite the conservative one so im freaking out even more about if im pregnant considering im not married and considering it was just a mistake.ok so ive been dating my boyfriend for 2 yrs..we clearly eastablished our rule of no sex before marriagel.im a virgin and ive never had sex ever.ive never even been physical with him till recently..anyhow first week feb he was ovr at my place and we both kissed and made out fully with our clothes on...neither his or my clothes were taken off so im assuming theres no way we can get pregnant from just touching eachother in our our parts with jeans on..anyway tht month i got my periods on the 9th of feb and then to my surprise i got them again the 19th of feb..it started with a brown discharge for 1 day and then  ended up like a proper period cycle with red proper blood ..im not sure wht tht was ...ive never had 2 periods in 1 month!! forsure tht lovemaking session i had with my bf cannot make my pregnant cuz neither my privates nor his were even touched without clothes on!!anyway after having 2 periods in feb i had my   one usual period on the 19th of march and then one usual ones on  the 14th of april !!!do u think tht brown discharge cud tht happened in feb cud be pregnancy related even thu i mever had sex but felt eachother on top of our clothes..i guess i had never done tht in the past so am paranoid..just really paranoid!!!!
anyway after all ths ..between 15th feb and 22nd april we never had sex but fooled around with our clothes on...not too many times just 3-4 times with my clothes on but not his ...also wed always fool around in the car,,,id stroke his private with my hands and i felt precum on it at times but tht was it..on the 22nd of april we both had had some drinks ..were in the car just kissing feeling each other...he had taken his pants off and i was storking him there while int he car ...i felt precum on my hands but i kept storking it,..later be started touching me on my pvt with his hands but my panties and a super thin lawn/very thin cotton  material pants were on ..he startesd rubbing his hands on me and did it for a good half hour even thu it was ontop of those lawn pants whcih were very very thin material and my panties but he felt me and stroked me thru the cottin oants only cuz he managed to remove my panties on the side while storking me there..so bascially the only barruie between his hand and my orivate part was tht very very veyry very thin cotton material..anyway after tht even i stoked myself with my hand for a bit over my thin pants which at some point io has stroked him with..im hoping tht precum had dried but im not sure..still it was ontop of my cotton pants..im not sure while he stroked me woth his hands if he had any precum on it and if my hand had some on it also...even thu the storking was over the super thin cotton pants..!!sooo scared!!!also ths is in the front seat of the car parked so u can imagine the positioning cudnt prolly be all tht right cuz he was on the driving seat and i was on the seat next to the drivers seat..we did ths for a good 2 hrs ...and then he out his pants back on...i never took my pants or panties off at all this night..later he somehow with his pants back on tried to get on my seat ..\awkward positiong and touch his pvt with mine ..we were both wearing clothes..but i put my hand over my private area as soon as he got ontip of me cuz i didnt want any of tht...anyway im super scared now!!do u think i can be pregnant???????i had my last periods 14th april tht ended around 19th april we had this makeout session on the 22nd night..i dont know when i ovulate..can u tell when i ovulate???im soo alooof with these things!!!im very very scared now!!anyway i got soo freaked out and confused cuz ths was my first time so intimate to anyone..since feb till april ths is the first time ive touched a guys private area and felt precum on my hand and seen it..i guess it was tioo much for me to handle also...anyhow after the 22nd nite i freaked out...i took plan b on the 25th evening at 5:30 pm within the 72 hrs window...do u think i needed it???do u think im pregnant????please help!!im reaking out completyely!!also the brown discharge i for on the 19th of feb tht turned into a period freaked me out cuz i have never had 2 periods in mone month!!!but after tht i got my periods on the 19th of march and then 14th april..im still waiting to get my period around 14th may ...please help am freaking out!shud i do a home  pregnany test???my parents wull disown me if they find out im pregnant!
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thanks for the response..after my last contact with my bf tht was on the 22nd of april i have not yet had my periods..they r due around 14th may so waiting for tht also..on the 22nd of april i touched his private parts without his clothes on ..and there was precum..i dono if he ejaculated or not cuz we were in the car.but i felt wet stuff on my hands when i stroked him there...he was on the driving seat i was on the next seat..he tried touching me down there with his hands which at some point he even stroked himself with...i dono if his hands had any precum/*** on them..but he touched my frm over my very think flimsy lawn pants...he touched my over them but the cloth was soooooo thin..and he kept fingering me thru the flimsy cloth..then at some point i even touched myself with the same hands i stroked him with..again over those light flimsy lawn pants!!!i have  never done ths in my life so im so scared..we were both also quite drunk tht nite but i know for a fact my clothes didnt come off ,neither was there any peneration,..he fingered me with his hands and i touched myself  with my hands tht i had touched on his ***/precum but iver those super thin flimpy lawn pants..he touched my and storked me for a long time with his hands..at one point of the nite he some jumped onto my seat and tried to get over me but then he had his pants on...i got scared and put my hands on my ovt area even thu i was wearing my clothes on cuz i didnt want my private to touch his..anyway ths happened on the 22nd night at 1 am..on the 25th at 5:30 pm i took a dose of plan b  and took the other pill after 12 hrs hours...plz tell me as ive been more clear if theres any chances of me being pregnant...thanks a bunch..im just soo stressed..cant do anything!
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1287128 tn?1331134538
I really wish you would read this and realize what i am saying is true. Unless you had penis inside your vagina you are not pregnant no way you'd make world record books if you were. Sometimes things like stress which clearly you're stressed can cause wacky periods YOU'RE NOT PREGNANT unless you're lying and had sex with your boyfriend you're not pregnant not pregnant not pregnantyt said you've had periods since the contact with your boyfriend so why are you worrying. I'm trying to be as helpful as i can but there is nothing to help other than your mindset you're not preg!
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i went to the dermatologist today..she gave me a medicine to put on the burn and anti allergic ..i didnt tell her i took plan b on the 25th...but i did tell her tht my periods arnt regular so my  gyne gave me some hormonal medicines tht i took for a week ,i just made it up to her so she knows i had some hormonal intake incase these rashes r related to tht shed have some idea atleast..anyway she said the rash seems likely frm the bleach..anway im feeling kinda vomitish today..maybe its becuz im freaking out if im pregnant and thts making me feel like tht..when do u think i shud take the pregnancy test??my periods shud be around the 14th of may and i heard plan b can delay them also..shud i take a pregnanacy test now or wait till the 14th???im just freaking out why i got 2 periods in feb...even thu after tht i had periods in march n april..also i feel like throwing up now..help!!!
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thanks..youve been very supportive
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1194973 tn?1385503904
More than likely. No need to stress about it till you have a reason to. Just watch what you do in the future so this doesn't happen again.
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ok thanks..i think im stressing out so much ..maybe thts why i feeling like ths!!
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