My husband first felt our son kicking about 20 weeks and now at 28 he feels all his little kicks :) it's amazing!
I'm 22 weeks and can hardly feel her outside and when I do she won't move for anyone else. I think it just depends on the person.
I started feeling baby at 18 weeks and if they pressed hard enough my partnet would vr able to feel im now 29 weeks and can see the baby pushing his feet up and moving about