It depends what you still need for baby. If you still need a lot of stuff, I'd do a baby shower. . My fiance and I chose to buy everything ourselves for my daughter. I had a baby shower but just asked for diapers and gift cards to buy formula/diapers.
You could have a baby shower and your husband could have a pamper party with all his guy friends like they could play pool or poker and just bring pampers when they go hang out
You could do a baby shower and a pamper raffle as a game. Anyone who brings pampers would be able to join the raffle it really helps :)
I'm having guys and girls at my baby shower and all the men have to bring diapers:) so I guess you can say I'm doing both in one lol :)))
I had a baby shower and did what mommahelizabeth said with the diaper raffle. And since I had a large shower we had three gifts that could have been won. But anyways my daughter is 5 months old and I still have not had to buy her diapers yet and I probably won't have to for another 3-5 months. So I definitely recommend the diaper raffle.