I bought one at Burlington coat factory that looks like a purse so I can use it as both and at Walmart I got my bf a daddy diaper bag back pack so if he takes the baby and I go out I can still use my diaper bag because it looks like a purse without having to switch
Also try looking for bags that could be used as a diaper bag but aren't actual "diaper bags". Some purses with multiple pockets can be used as a diaper bag too. Or try Vera Bradley, Ross , Marshalls or bealls(not sure where u live but these are discount stores in florida).
Walmart, got mines for $10 on Thursday before Black Friday it's just so perfect. I got lucky those are usually 30. Maybe u can still catch them on some kind of sale
Try Amazon they have so many things
I wanted to go to sears but I stopped at kmart first and got mine for 14.99 its adorable just wish it was a lil bigger
We just used a backpack for our first. Worked just fine for us.
Walmart has some cute ones! I got mine for 30
Target has some cute boy ones
Go inside the mall and go inside sears I bought one barely for my baby girl I got it for 24 dollars and its purple of Winnie the pooh go and check them out there girls and boys bags