I was in a major car accident in 08, hospitalized for a month. My intestines had torn from my stomach with the force of the impact...I bled to.death internally , they had to remove over a foot of my intestines and reattach them to my stomach..I was only 17 but when I asked the doc if I could still have babies one day, she said yes that none of my woman parts were affected,however, I had to wait least five years BC internal incisions take longer to heal and if I were to start expanding before then I could tear my.intestines again and bleed.to death. I also have a foot.long incision scar from my breast bone to me pelvis that has the potential of.splitting during birth...its been over five years and I'm married and 12 weeks 1 day pregnant... I'm scared every day but there's nothing more I want out of life than to be a mother and have a beautiful family...its worth the risk
I always feel like I'm not going to cope in labor, she'll get stuck, I won't be able to push her out and also worrying about ever recovering from it. Also I worry about if I'm going to be any good or I'm just going fail as a mum.. :/ I'm glad I'm not the only one getting cold feet!
Some days it just comes to me and id be sitting down wondering and worrying of all the bad things that could happen. I hope this will go away soon or itd really be stressful for me.. thank you mommies for ur advice..
I've been a worrying about all sorts whilst pregnant. I think it's normal but if it really starts to bother you and affect how you feel day to day then talk to your midwife or doctor about it.
I just found out im pregnant.. and had dreams about my husband having to care for the baby by himself because of the same thought all night.. but as long as your healthy you should be fine. Doctors know a lot nowadays!