curiosity about normal delivery

[shormity]

I heard after having a normal delivery, vagina does not remain as like before. Is it true that vagina becomes bigger, is there any medicine or Medicare that makes it feels like earlier??

[doulamommy]

Doing kegal exercises will also return you to your formal glory lol and prevent incontinence as well!

[shormity]

Thanks Amy for ur suggestion..

[Amy1830]

They say you are supposed to wait 6 weeks. Some say they didn't wait that long and it was fine. But I think it may take at least 6 weeks for it to tighten back up and having sex before 6 weeks could prevent it from fully recovering. With my first I waited the full amount of time. Maybe even longer because I couldn't stand my sons dad haha that was nine years ago. Mine is totally normal looking and tight as before. I don't have any incontinence either. This time I'm hoping to be able to deliver vaginally and I'm planning on waiting the full 6 weeks even if I feel fine just to be sure that the muscles have had enough time to fully tighten back up

[shormity]

When should I have sex after giving birth? How would I know the perfect healing?? I want to get the same pleasure n wanna give my partner same pleasure we used to have ....

[AshPotter]

I honestly think it's nervous at first but it's no diffrent if not better afterwards. And my partner felt the same we have a better sex life now than we ever did and our sons 2 second baby on the way xx

[aigneelashay]

I had 3rd degree tearing with my first born & my vagina went back to normal & actually I think my sex life was even better the vagina naturally shrinks back down to size as long as you allow it to heal properly

[shormity]

Thanks for ur suggestion but um little worried about my sex life :p

[AshPotter]

I tore and it all healed up and I found it difficult to have sex till about 4 months because it felt smaller and my partners told me honestly you wouldn't know I'd had a baby, just keep clean after delivery get a couple if baths a day and you will be fine x