I tore and it all healed up and I found it difficult to have sex till about 4 months because it felt smaller and my partners told me honestly you wouldn't know I'd had a baby, just keep clean after delivery get a couple if baths a day and you will be fine x
Thanks for ur suggestion but um little worried about my sex life :p
I had 3rd degree tearing with my first born & my vagina went back to normal & actually I think my sex life was even better the vagina naturally shrinks back down to size as long as you allow it to heal properly
I honestly think it's nervous at first but it's no diffrent if not better afterwards. And my partner felt the same we have a better sex life now than we ever did and our sons 2 second baby on the way xx
When should I have sex after giving birth? How would I know the perfect healing?? I want to get the same pleasure n wanna give my partner same pleasure we used to have ....
They say you are supposed to wait 6 weeks. Some say they didn't wait that long and it was fine. But I think it may take at least 6 weeks for it to tighten back up and having sex before 6 weeks could prevent it from fully recovering. With my first I waited the full amount of time. Maybe even longer because I couldn't stand my sons dad haha that was nine years ago. Mine is totally normal looking and tight as before. I don't have any incontinence either. This time I'm hoping to be able to deliver vaginally and I'm planning on waiting the full 6 weeks even if I feel fine just to be sure that the muscles have had enough time to fully tighten back up
Thanks Amy for ur suggestion..
Doing kegal exercises will also return you to your formal glory lol and prevent incontinence as well!