If you go to any website that calculates the due date, you can input your last period date and it will probably show up around October 8 (I just checked a site for you - just google "when am i due"). But based on when they say you conceived, November 8 sounds right. The only thing I can think that happened, is you didn't ovulate when you should have - are your periods normal?? If your periods are irregular then it is definitly possible that you ovulated later, which means you would have conceived later.
I would say that you would have conceived 11-16 days after your LMP. Which would still put you in January. That's only if you ovulated in the normal range. You may have had a late ovulation. The doctor may be going off of the current size of your baby. With it being this late in your pregnancy, I'm surprised they are changing things around, and that they haven't made up their minds yet.
Good luck! You may get your baby sooner, rather than later.