Babys father.

[momma2010]

So ive been wondering who the father of my baby is, its really got me stressed out. I am currently almost 31 weeks pregnant. My last period was August 8,2009. So when i had my u/s the said i was 9 wks. Which brought me back to that date, but then you add 2 weeks onto that to see when u actually conceived right? If so then i know who the father is.  I slept with my ex on August 11th and i think the 14th also(not positive). He pulled out, but i know that doesnt mean much, you can still get preg. Then i didnt have sex again until the 20th with my bf. We had sex on August 20th-29th(pretty sure every night) and we used no protection and he didnt pull out every time.. Then i found outi was pregnant on Sept 11th. and we go on from there... so im wondering is my babys dad my ex-bf or my current bf??

[Lara1978]

Hi

I am pretty much 99 per cent that  it is you're boyfriends baby not you're ex's. It would have ben far to early to ovulate when you slept with you're ex. Also withdrawal is 85 per cent effective so it is very unlikely although not impossible to be you're ex's baby. For you're own sanity please have a paternity test as even though the odds are strongly in you're  favour this will eat you up inside. You will never be able to be truly happy, dont worry tho i'm positive once you have the test it will be you'r ecurrent b/f's.

[Victoria01]

The others are right. Anytime you have sex with two different people within the same month, there is no way of knowing who the father is without a DNA test.

[sprarah]

Could be either.....you would have to get a dna test.....sorry but there is no way of knowing with out a dna test.

[penswriter]

b/c of how close the dates are the ONLY way to know is a paternity test. tell both men and get the test done.

good luck.