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Miscarriage---TMI warning also....
I know this isn't the right forum...but I need to get this out. Some of it is TMI
I more than likely will not be on here as much. I know I've said this before but right now it's very hard....I need time to think and clear my thoughts. I was so excited when I found out I was preggers on the 30th of June. On the 1st of July my hcg was at 30. Well on Sunday I started bleeding and it was dark brown then turned bright red. I had some cramps but mainly they were not severe at all just enough to notice them and it be uncomfortable. As all my cramps are that way. I called the doc and he told me to come in monday morning if I had not stopped bleeding. So monday came and I was still bleeding. I had one big clot that morning. I took my blood test and came back...I clotted all day yesterday. Which was normal for me also but I know it's not normal when you are preggers. So about 12:40 est I get a call from the doc. Saying my levels were back at a negative and I have had a miscarriage. They told me not to be concerned about passing all of it b/c I had so many clots I probably got it all out. Anyway....I'm confused with it all and I go to see my Old doctor on tuesday to make sure my cervix and uterus is back to normal or to see if we need to proceed with a D & C.
It's been a week from hell but you know what....I have learned many things and even though this is my second miscarriage.....My heart still breaks for everyone who has ever had to go through the things I've went through. Thank you ladies for all of your support and I won't be gone long. I am not gone for good. I'm just taking a week to clear my head and get everything in order. I still have to get online to chart my temps so I'll check by ever so often. Thanks again ladies.
I more than likely will not be on here as much. I know I've said this before but right now it's very hard....I need time to think and clear my thoughts. I was so excited when I found out I was preggers on the 30th of June. On the 1st of July my hcg was at 30. Well on Sunday I started bleeding and it was dark brown then turned bright red. I had some cramps but mainly they were not severe at all just enough to notice them and it be uncomfortable. As all my cramps are that way. I called the doc and he told me to come in monday morning if I had not stopped bleeding. So monday came and I was still bleeding. I had one big clot that morning. I took my blood test and came back...I clotted all day yesterday. Which was normal for me also but I know it's not normal when you are preggers. So about 12:40 est I get a call from the doc. Saying my levels were back at a negative and I have had a miscarriage. They told me not to be concerned about passing all of it b/c I had so many clots I probably got it all out. Anyway....I'm confused with it all and I go to see my Old doctor on tuesday to make sure my cervix and uterus is back to normal or to see if we need to proceed with a D & C.
It's been a week from hell but you know what....I have learned many things and even though this is my second miscarriage.....My heart still breaks for everyone who has ever had to go through the things I've went through. Thank you ladies for all of your support and I won't be gone long. I am not gone for good. I'm just taking a week to clear my head and get everything in order. I still have to get online to chart my temps so I'll check by ever so often. Thanks again ladies.
I know exactly how you feel i had my first M/C Nov 07 then my 2nd in May 08 it is the hardest thing that i have ever had to cope with and it totally destroyed me and tore me apart and i found it hard to cope with things. My partner was great even though i took alot of the pain and anger i felt out on him but i was fortunate that he stood by me and was my rock throughout it all. What i must say is i never realised how it had affected my partner too. Everyone including myself sort of forgot to ask my partner how he was feeling and he was feeling just as bad as me but because it was my body and not his i think alot of people forget the 2nd party! Make sure you share how you are feeling with your partner as he is probably hurting as much as you and sometimes they are forgotten but yet they are feeling the pain, hurt and anger as much as you are. Im glad to hear you arent going to give up your a fighter like me and fingers crossed its 3rd time lucky for us both.
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Hi Shasy... my heart goes out to you and I sympathize with your pain. I had a mc last fall and it was just devestating. I understand the frustration, anger, sadness... everything that comes along with the loss. I'm so sorry you're having to endure this, but I can tell you that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Your miracle will come true, and your dreams will be realized. Have faith in that.
I took a "vacation" from all things baby after my mc because I needed to clear my head and my thoughts, and heal emotionally so that I could go into my next pregnancy whole-heartedly. It did a world of good for me. I hope you follow your heart and do whatever it needs, no matter what that means. Best wishes to you, we are all here for you.
I took a "vacation" from all things baby after my mc because I needed to clear my head and my thoughts, and heal emotionally so that I could go into my next pregnancy whole-heartedly. It did a world of good for me. I hope you follow your heart and do whatever it needs, no matter what that means. Best wishes to you, we are all here for you.
The doc that I was going to see because of the pregnancy (My normal doc does not deliver) called me today and wants me to go straight into ttc again....I really don't know if I am ready or if it's safe. I know after my first one they told me to wait and I told them it was not a problem because at that time I was not ttc. So I go to see my normal doctor on tuesday and I Think that I'm going to wait until I ask him. The other doctor seems to think that I was starting the miscarriage when I had my blood work done. That's why the test was very faint...I did not have much hcg. But that would have put me farther than 3 weeks...I don't know I don't understand and I'm afraid I never will.....anyway..back to work....
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.. I understand wanting to clear your head, but just remember if you do want to talk, we are all here..
(((Sending hugs your way!!)))
(((Sending hugs your way!!)))
Sorry for you loss, may time heal you emotionally and physically. I know when I mc'd, I needed to mentally 'get-away' for awhile too...hugs!
I won't be gone long ladies...like I said I will drop in and out...I just probably won't respond much. Anyway....Thank you all for your support.
I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am about your loss. Take time to mourn and do whatever you need to do to heal your heart. I hope your doctor will find out what, if anything, is wrong so that the next time, you will have your baby. Take care and let us know if you need us. ***HUGS***
im so sorry for your loss, i had missed m/c june 12 and d&c on the 17th, burial services is this thursday for my baby. Im still greiving and trying to pic up the pieces. Take all the time you need, time heals and crying cleans the soul. If you need to chat im here. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
i am so sorry. i too had my 2nd MC in Feb and it feels horrible, we are all here if you would like to talk. you do not have to leave the forum, you can just stay around to chat and i also found that talking to others after my MC helped me alot.
I am so sorry for your loss. I've been there, had my second m/c this past February. Take time to mourn and clear your head. Stay positive and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm really, REALLY sorry for what you've gone thru, I hope you can find peace about it.
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