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If u look big could it mean you'll go early? I was pretty small before getting pregnant and now I'm all baby at 28 weeks I've gained 10-15 lbs and thought I looked good and kinda small still but someone asked when I was due and I told her August first and she was like "omg! Are you sure it's not twins your huge" :( now I'm super self conscious
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12380259 tn?1424964291
Yes you do miss it! And with my first pregnancy on my gosh I hated it cause I also didn't rly look pregnant! Most women say ur lucky but it doesn't hurt when ur 6 months pregnant and no one can tell! I wanted others to see and be excited with me. I know how u feel! But if this is ur first pregnancy it just takes a while to show sometimes. I barley started showing 6 months and then bam! I showed pretty good at the end! Dont worry @Merlov you will show ur precious hump soon!
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Ladies at least u guys look pregnant 19 weeks two days. I use to weight 136 before pregnancy now I'm pregnant n I'm 125 and people keep telling me good for me that I'm loosing weight and getting in shape, and trying to keep my self healthy. I have no choice but to just say yeah they have no idea I have a little one in my belly. I just decide to ignore them n don't explain my self. I know my baby is healthy not concerned about loosing weight so don't even explain ur self n don't worry how big u look enjoy it! By the time u know u will miss it ( heard u miss it from other mommies who have gave birth already)
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12380259 tn?1424964291
Dont worry its just a part of pregnancy! Im only 22 weeks and feel huge already as well! Your weight gain is perfect right on track. like u said its all baby! So dont worry abt what others say, its hard but know ur healthy and ur baby will be healthy and she obviously has never been pregnant cause you dont sound huge at all. u sound great! Keep it up mama!
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Like she's already started to drop and stuff but I'm not that big and it just made me so self conscious
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No. How big you look (or how big someone else thinks you look) or how much weight you've gained has absolutely no bearing on when you will deliver.
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My schools librarian told me i was super huge for being only 28 weeks. I mean duhh im going to be big -.- i just answered with a questionable ok n left
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I really hate when people do that like stfu. ... and actually your weight gain is perfect.   Don't worry
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People can been so unkind don't listen to comments because they not only bring you down they make you worry too xx
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