going.to the mother in law house

[cali1904]

I dislike visiting her all she does ia smoke cigarettes not caring if im pregnant . She has cats drinking out of her toilet which i never set down to pee . She has dogs roasters.  Besides her negative comments.  She thinks we are rich and ask to borrow money which I have told my bf we need to start saving up. Sorry ladies needed to get it out because if I tell my bd he'll get butthurt and I totally understand

[youngmummie96]

Aw I'm in same situation !!

[missi8]

She shouldnt smoke* sorry on my phone

[missi8]

Its hes mother. Whom she brought up and carried for months..all the pain U experianse she did to. All those sleepless nights etc.
Would U like it if ur son's girl tell him not to give U money, when U ask..?
I totaly agree that she should smoke infront of U or the child. But that U have to take up with ur bf or her. And they should understand that if the baby inhales the smoke she can get asmah when it gets older or even lung cancer because of her etc.
He can save up money for ur baby and give his mother a litle to when she needs them. U dont need to buy expencive stuf. Me SIL bought alot for her girl and are selling almost everything because many tings wasnt neceserly.

[mamabear8911]

I wouldn't blame u if u stop visiting her,  you can't take your baby there.. You need to talk to your bd about health conditions for your child.  If she wants to see baby needs to go your house or meet up or not smoke around u n baby . It's important to start saving up for the baby.  U don't have to say babe don't give money to your mom. Just tell him in general want to start saving account for baby stuff. Best of luck