can anyone help me???

[xxemmaclarexx]

hiya
i have been trying to get an answer now for weeks but so far nothing
this is a long story so please bear with me :)
and way,i did a hpt and it come up pos so i made a doctors appt and she confirmed it,the next day i started to bleed and i went to the doctors and she wanst bothered at all by it and said it was normol
i said how far does she think i am and she said she would book me into have a u/s
so i went and had an u/s with still some light bleeding [nothing drastic just when i wipe there is very very very light blood]
so i had a u/s[vagina]and she couldnt find much but a dark [not black]circle [like a very dark grey ,as the screen is already grey it was just a bit darker then that]
she saiad that might be it there but i dunno?
i thought thats reassuring,so i said to her do you know how far i am she said i would have to talk to the dr
so i wait for the dr and she was talking me through having my HGC levels taken and so i say what do you think the circle is?
and she said i think you are pregnant but it is too early to tell
so i say i would go back i 48 hrs to take more HGC levels
i go back and take more bloods like i said i would
and theni have to wait
well that was 2 weeks agao and i havent heard anything so i rung up and they have no record of me being there whats so ever!!
so im very angry at this point as i did spend a good 7 hrs at the hospital
and today i went ot the toilet and wiped myself and there was a load of blood[like i am into my 2nd day of a period with little clots ]so i think what is going on now??
i ring up my dr and she again wasnt bothered
i have been to the toilet a good few times since and there has been no blood but discarge with what can only be described as light strecky bood in the discharge
so my answer to you is
what was the grey circle on my u/s and has anyone had it ?
and what is going on with my body and has anyone had this experience?
thanks

[xxemmaclarexx]

hiya

i ddi say i would let you know about my hpt and it is still saying postitive and i am using a clearblue one the ony thing is i have started to bleed again today
so wether or not that means i have misscarried  and my body is readjuting or im one of those few women that get their periods while pregnant ,i dunno
but i am looking into speaking to a private gyno as you cant get reffered to one and see them within the week ,you have to wait at least 3 months [very poor standards]and i need answers now
so i will keep you posted

god luck with the little baby xxx

[xxemmaclarexx]

hiya
thanks for that i will let you know as i will have another hpt tomorrow and will get it done that way
but some stupid person said to me [not on here another chat room]said that i might of had cancer and that has panikced me to tears i dont know whats worse now :(

care in any part of england is bad people die all the time as the hospitals arent clean properly its as if we live in a 3rd world country
people from other countries come here and spit in the bins and evertything its disgusting it really is
sometimes the bins wont be changed for days
the list is endless i could go on and on

CONGRATULATIONS on your pregnancy im sure you will have such a happy healthy baby
is this your first ?
i will keep you posted xxx

[nikko*ttc]

It could be a month or two before your periods return to normal. I had no idea that the hospitals were so bad in London. I'm sorry. If you need anything just ask the ladies here are so great. Are you charting? If not and you are TTC, it may help. I chart on fertilityfriend.com however, I will be 6 weeks pg tomorrow. Good luck! I would like to know if you are miscarrying or one of the unfortunate ones who have a period during pregnancy. Keep us posted!

[xxemmaclarexx]

hiya
thanks for that i will do another test and will let you know about what it says and also thay dont do that here
get a new dr i mean
where you live is the only hospital you are allowed to go to and even then the other hospitals arent that great!!
if you go to the ER they just tell you to go to the GP [the family dr]who is also uslessthey arent very equipt
i did think that maybe the ultrasound machines are rubbish compared to the ones in the  states as i have spoken to many women about this and they all said that they never had the grey circle
the care you get over here is soo rubbish and you would be shocked if i told you half the things that went on here
its shocking it really is thats why its no suprise to me that they have lost me records its just something they would do
the only private hospital we have near london is the one that only mega rich people can afford like posh spice she has had all here babies there but there would be no way i could afford that otherwise thats where i would go to go and sort this out once and for all

oonce you have misscarried does anyone know if your periods will return to normal?

[JoyRenee]

OMG! I cannot believe they don't have your records!!! Def. ask your doc to check your HCG levels again. They'll have to check them every few days to see if they are rising. If they are rising you're probably just having bleeding during your preg. If they aren't, you are possibly m/cing.

[nikko*ttc]

Oh, dear. Have you taken another HPT. If not, you need to. Is it still positive. If it is there is a chance of ectopic pregnancy or you could be one of the few women who still have a period while or pregnant or unfortunately worse you may be having an early miscarraige. The grey, well that could have been the baby but maybe not hard to say. Your best bet is to contact a new OB/GYN let them know your symptoms, they will more than likely tell you to come in right away or go to the nearest ER.

Unfortunately, I did experience this in December of 2006 and it was a miscarraige. I am sorry for your loss if that is what is going on, but you won't know for sure until you can get some straight answers. Go be the strong, assertive woman that you know you are and make them understand that you need answers.