weight gain?

[Riley_oct_4_2014]

So when I first got pregnant I weighed 140. I am now 36+6 weeks prego and weigh 186. I am so miserable and cant get over the fact that I have gained that much weight. I am concerned. My doctor doesn't seem concerned. He says I dont even look what I wiegh. I am a ftm. I miss my little cute body so much I feel so ugly cause I have gotten stretch marks and feel so fat. My fiance says im just as sexy as I was when we first meet. But sometimes he makes lil jokes about my weight gain but I know he really just is playing but even knowing that it still makes me insecure and hurts my feelings. So any advice ladies? I do watch what I eat I drank plenty of water.

[Riley_oct_4_2014]

Thank you ladies!!

[xoxohbxoxo]

Honestly, there's no reason for you to feel insecure! You're pregnant, weight gain is inevitable. Some women just gain more than others.. even if they live a healthy lifestyle. Just keep in mind that most of the weight you're gain is ALL baby. Your body will most likely bounce back fairly quickly and if it doesn't, it's something you can work on after your delivery. Set your insecurites aside for the remainder of your pregnancy and focus on your growing baby!! As for your hubby, tell him that his jokes bother you. Men are clueless when it comes to women and their feelings, so bite the bullet, sit him down and talk to him about it

[hab63380]

I went from 145 to 215 w my first pregnancy and my dr never said a word about my weight gain when my son turn 6 mos i was back down to pre preg weight which i counted calories to get to but still .. but then i found out i was preg again so i didnt get to keep my figure long lol got a couple stretch marks but not many and my son was way worth it ! Ul get there! U really havent even gained much over recomended weight gain .. keep ur head up momma no matter how much is gained ur doin it for ur precious baby and as u said shes well worth it :))

[Crystal0093]

And no your doctor would tell you if your gaining too much they would tell you to eat less or something. Don't worrie soon you'll have your beautiful baby and you'll be able to start getting back into shape :)

[Crystal0093]

I understand how you feel I went from 135 and am now 170 I'm 37 weeks and 3 days ... I've had times when I have cried about it ... I know it's worth it for my baby but it's hard to not think about all the weight you've gained especially when you go to the doctors and the first thing they do is check your weight :/ I feel real fat and worrie I'm not going to lose the weight but I try not to think about it so much..
I plan to do everything I can to get in shape after my daughter is born :) she's deff worth all this.

[Riley_oct_4_2014]

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[Riley_oct_4_2014]

You dont think thats to much weight gain though? Thank you. My daughter is worth every stretch mark and weight gain. Im just trying to get my self confidence back and feel better about it. Ive just been really Emotional lately and feeling insecure with myself

[ariflowers]

I'm sure you'll be back to your body hun ... & if ur fiancé still thinks ur sexy then believe him don't put urself down :]
I heard breast feeding helps alot
& wearing a girdle & exercising don't worry I'm sure you'll look even better before u were pregnant