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7045779 tn?1394737965

Js frustrated..

Nd wanted to cry since I cant post this.on fb I Js let it out here :((
Nways I'm js tired of hearing all these people saying I gained weight this.nd that its Js so annoying and I cant handle it:( I mean am.I suppose to lose weight nd be skinny? Ahhh..
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Don't let it get to you. Kill them with kindness. Tell they that they was once pregnant so what they thought you was going to stay small the whole pregnancy. I'm 19+1 and on curvy so now on showing a bit and every time my sister or any say am fat I go off and say they been fat.
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7673423 tn?1400599131
With my son I gained almost 70 lbs I weighed120 in the beginning. The day before I had him somebody told me I looked pregnant by my legs not HUGE belly. Some people are just *****! Rock that big belly!
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dont feel bad, i cant even wear colored shirts because my brother calls me different charactors, wear a red shirt he calls me santa, wear a green one he calls me shrek and yellow is big bird lol so now i stick to shades not colors.
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7631083 tn?1394352887
My sister has called me fat when I wasn't even showing yet. Than she said I was going to be super fat in a few months and all that stuff. She has been trying on purpose to make me feel horrible during my pregnancy but I can't say anything to her because she will complain to my mom and I will get **tched at for it.
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I know its hard hearing all of those comments. Before I got pregnant with my first baby I was fit then I started gaining weight and everyone said I was fat and I was over doing it on eating. But tgey dont know how hungry you feel or how much energy being pregnant takes from you. I didnt lose my baby weight and I was a little curvy and they would tell me I was gonna end up getting a heart attack. Im pregnant again and my sister tells me im fat. I lost 20 lbs and im 3 months. Dont worry about. Its for your baby. Be proud :) sorry for the longgg comment
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I know several women who gained over 70 pounds during pregnancy and in a year they lost all the pregnancy weight. Im trying to think of this like its all temporary! It wont be like this forever and I will get my body back some day!
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girl, dont worry about what anyone is  saying. of course watch your weight gain only to maintain good health for yourself. but as long as your baby is healthy and you are  happy everything is all good!
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7184931 tn?1390773745
One of my older sisters keeps commenting on my weight gain and strech marks. I told her bluntly "she's gained just as much has had stretch marks for yrs (no kids)" she got quiet fast and stopped saying things like that.
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7045779 tn?1394737965
Oh geez... I mean okie we all know that we need to eat for the baby and gain weight but I Js hope that they can Js shut it nd stop saying some hurtful things..
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My grandmother told me today I looked too big for 17/18 weeks and if she didn't know better she'd think it was twins I was just like whatever I haven't even gained weight so far I've lost 6lbs! My belly is just big.
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I feel the same way.  
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7045779 tn?1394737965
Yea exactly especially hearing from ur friends nd family it Js hurts ... I literally yelled at my sister awhile ago for calling me fat..
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6789572 tn?1395629939
My family keeps telling me that I've gained weight and that I've gained to much weight and keeps making me feel bad about the whole thing too. I constantly get told I look BIG and everything else. It is very annoying and frustrating. Just hang in there and try not to let it get to you. There are some days j just break down and cry but it'll be okay
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