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i dont want to be pregnant.. but..
i had sex with no protection 4 days before i started ovulating. alot of people are saying you cannot ovulate when you're pregnant and i really hope thats true! but i have just been feeling really weird lately, i get nauseated and random times and i feel like im gettin bigger in the hips. i am not positive i am because its not quite time for my period, but im just wondering.. is it possible that i am? even though i ovulated..?
i didnt mean to sound harsh on the first post i was pissed off when i recieved the post back from her, she came on this forem for advice and that is what i gave her and that was if she werent planning on having children yet to use some protection and i did say good luck to her
I'm 34 and had a missed M/C in Dec.....no other children and am having troubles TTC again.....This girl made a mistake, as we all have in our pasts.....She sounded as though if she WERE pregnant that she would keep the baby and do right by it......I've been with DH for 6 years and thought we got pregnant at one point before we were married, and although it wouldn't have been planned, we made a mistake....no need to be harsh.....She would have done the right thing if she had ended up pregnant.....I would do anything to get pregnant now, and the world is full of people who have no problems getting pregnant, even when unplanned...that's the way it goes.....As long as the right decision is made in the end, we should try to support them.
it isnt a mistake when you dont use protection there is women in this world who would love to have kids but cant there are women on this forem who i feel very sorry for because they are having problems conceveing, and then there is others that cant be bothered using protection and then getting pregnant when they dont want them!!!!!!
I'm glad that everything worked out well for you......I'm sure if you started your period it's OK to assume that you're not pregnant.....Best of Luck in the future!
okay thanks. but im pretty sure this site is for advice not for you to tell me what lessons i need to learn. yeah it was a mistake but we all make them! have a good day.
i hope you have learnt your lesson maybe next time you will think twice before having unprotected sex because you can get pregnant at any time if you are having periods good luck
i did start my period. yay. i know i could still be pregnant, but i dont think so!
thanks for all of you guys' help & advice
thanks for all of you guys' help & advice
i too had my son when I was 16. He is my entire world. Life doesn't get any better. Let us know something when you do.
yeah i had my first lil bundle of joy when i was 16 too! But i just turned 16! I was scared at first to but now i couldnt imagine a day or min without her! SHE IS MY WORLD!!! god makes everything happen for a reason remember that! Good luck!
well if you end up preggo just know i am here to help! i had my daughter when i was 16, and just to let you know it wasnt the end of the world. growing up fast, lots of responsiblity..so id say if you are ready then you should really get on some birth control hun!! good luck!!!
I hope I didn't come off as judgmental because that is not what I feel whatsoever!!! I've seen girls as young as 12 have babies, and while that is not ideal, things like this do happen!
I know that if you pregnant, you'll do just fine, based on everything you just told me. And obviously you don't want kids right now, but the fact you'll step up and take responsibility is commendable!
Please let me know if you need/want to talk or have more questions, hon! Your UTI could definitely be causing symptoms.
I know that if you pregnant, you'll do just fine, based on everything you just told me. And obviously you don't want kids right now, but the fact you'll step up and take responsibility is commendable!
Please let me know if you need/want to talk or have more questions, hon! Your UTI could definitely be causing symptoms.
this is much different, im 16 years old. and if i was pregnant i wouldnt know what to do. you're probably thinking im a kid, and yes i am. which is exactly why i dont want to be pregnant, sure if i am, then thats whats meant to be and theres nothing i can/would do about it except try my best to do the best for my child.. but i definately don't WANT kids right now, so i made a mistake and hopefully i won't have my first child by a mistake at 16 years old.. there's nothing wrong with that.. but thats not what i want for me.. but i did go to the doctor today, i didnt ask if i was pregnant or anything but i have a urinary tract infection which could explain some of my symptoms. idk.
So what happens if you're pregnant, scared? How old are you, too? Not that age matters, but you seem pretty adamant about not being pregnant. I got preggo when I was 19 and my daughter is the most precious, wonderful human being on the face of the earth. She's 2 1/2 and I adore her. She is the sweetest, most empathetic, cuddly little person. I know that if you end up pregnant, it will all work out. Everyone here has a story of survival and overcoming obstacles. If you're pregnant, you CAN do it!
well if your period is due on the 20th and you had sex 10 day's ago it's likely that you were near ovulation and had sex within your 7 day fertile period. You can usually get an accurate Home pregnancy test 14 days after sex. Which would be Friday the 15th. But if you don't get a positive result you will need to test again on the 20th if your period does not come. It can sometimes even take one week after your missed period to get a positive. I hope your period shows and next time be sure to use something. Good Luck!
cm is not a determining factor for pregnancy...it is different with every woman...some do and some don't. If you had sex 10 days ago you should wait another 3 or 4 days and test. When is your period due?
hm, okay. well do u still have the "cm" i guess its called.. the clear stuff if youre pregnant? i had sex 10 days ago. and thank you for the best wishes, i usually always use protection but this was a spur of the moment mistake and hopefully nothing more.
you only ovulate for a 24 hour period. I don't know when you started having symptoms but if you think you are ovulation right now you could take a ovulation test to see....however it may not show. How many days ago did you have sex?
How do you know that you are still ovulating? Sperm can live in the right environment for up to 7 days ( in the vaginal canal), so if you had unprotected sex in the time frame of 7 days prior to ovulation, during ovulation, and/or one day after ovulation, then there's a chance that you could be pregnant...If you're not this month, I suggest always using protection if you don't want to become pregnant......Best wishes.
anytime you have unprotected sex you can end up pregnant. especially around ovulation. you'll just have to wait to take a pregnancy test.
i had sex before i had any signs of ovulating at all. and about 4 days later or maybe a couple more i STARTED ovulating and i still am.. i wasnt worried at first & from what i have read, i shouldnt be. but still, i am a little.
when did you ovulate before? Or do you mean you had sex 4 days ago and are now ovulating?
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