Hmm...okay i know i have..

[xoxo_Confused_xoxo]

posted something like this before but my mind just cannot get off of this.....



I am almost 9 weeks pregnant will be on Saturday....i am soooo scared and nervous of having another miscarriage and each week thats closer to my 12 weeks i am get more nervous....I had a miscarriage in November a couple days before my 12 weeks....i cant stopp thinkin that its goin to happen again...i cant help it!!! people tell me to think positive but its not that easy i am so scared....any reassurance or advice would be great....thank you  ladies!!!!! *hugs*

[xoxo_Confused_xoxo]

thank you soo much ladies!!! :)

[JoyRenee]

I got pregnant after my miscarriage and I was terrified until I delivered. It's just natural to wonder and worry that something could and might happen to your little one. I know that isn't reassuring but I did have my little girl last March! We're celebrating her 1st birthday in a few weeks.

So there really isn't anything anyone could say to alleviate the fear but please know it is possible to have your little one. Your chances of miscarrage go down at 12 weeks to having a 5% chance of miscarrying. You're so close!

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

I've heard many time the chances of having two in a row are rare unless there is something throwing the pregnancy off.  That was my case.  I had a blood clotting disorder and low progestrone my dr did some blodd work and gave me some meds and so far so good. But I'm still scared every day

[xoxo_Confused_xoxo]

do the chances get lower at all the second time around? i have heard many ladies havin miscarriages but the 2nd  time they try everything goes okay....

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

opps see it didn't show my first post when I went to check so I rewrote it and now they are both there....I'm not crazy I sware....well maybe a little.

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

Oh honey I so know you're pain I have had 2 MC's and lost one baby this pregnancy.  I thought all along once I got past the 12 week mark all my stress would go away....boy was  I wrong to tell you the truth.  I'm more scared now.  You see once you hit the second trimester almost all your prego symptoms leave. And that leaves a paranoid mommy feeling less and less pregnant.  I'm scared to death in between my appts.  I'm 14.5 weeks with twins and each visit has been reassuring but to add to my fears I have a low lying placenta that causes bleeding at any given moment......yeah that will scare you to death....but my next appt is Monday and hopefully we will find out the sexes.  But to tell you the truth my only advice is just love your baby and enjoy being pregnant.  At least you will know in the aweful chance something bad does happen your baby knows you loved them....and in the more than likely chance all is fine your baby won't be under any un needed stress.  Good luck and it's ok to worry just try not to dwell on it.

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

honey I so feel you're pain I've had 2 mc's and lost one baby this pregnancy I'm now 14.5 weeks with twins I thought once I got past the 12 week stage I'd be alot better but to tell you the honest to God truth I'm more scared now.  B/C once you're in your second trimester most of your pregnancy symptoms are gone and you feel so not pregnant.  I'm there now and I toatlly am freaked in between each visit.  And to add to the stress I have a low lying placenta that causes bleeding some times.....yeah that will scare the **** out of you if nothing else does.  But the best advice I can give is enjoy being pregnant and and enjoy your baby and in the terrible case something bad does happen you know that your baby knew how much mommy loved him or her.  My next appt is Monday and I'm still so scared what if something is wrong.  But I just keep telling my babies I love then and will enjoy carrying them as long as they are there.  And if they are there til time to come out all the better at least I know I didn't stress out my babies.