i need help

[phada_nature]

my girl friend is pregnant about 1 month  and me been the dad dont like the idea of her given birth because she is young and also not capable of taking care of the child. the whole thing is that i am also in school and working at the same time and not ready to father a kid more over we are financially down thats my problem, my gfriends parents are also in a bad state right now. i really dont now if she should abort the baby or not but  i prefer she aborts it. my other problem is that i was brought up by a single parent i never knew my dad cos he was irresponsible, i dont want my kid to also go through thats situation its a horrible experience. please what should i do before i do something  really bad.  

[phada_nature]

Thank you ftogirl for that wonderful idea i am very greatful for that, you know i was brought up by my mum alone and i knew life was'nt going on smoothly for her so taking care of me was a prob. so she made me go stay with my auntie,  i bet you it was more than hell so i vowed never to make my kid stay with anyone apart from his/her parents. ftogirl i have been in it and i know how it feels on less we the parents are dead. ftogirl i would love us to talk more oin this ok please this is my id phada_natrue***@**** please you can get there so that we chat me with the messanger. just buzz me when you come online. Thank you once agian have a wondful time.

[ftogirl]

There are many great families out there who would love to adopt a child who cannot have their own birth children.  My recommendation would be to put the baby up for adoption if she can't take care of it.  Life is a gift and should not be terminated.  And in the future, you and your girl friend should use a reliable method of birth control or practice abstinence so that you will not face this situation.